Putting On High-Risk Trades
I'm both a long term and short term investor in equities. I've done well and nothing to complain about in that department. However, I didn't know what an emotional flashback was, till recently. I've discovered a pattern of mine. Right after, I've done well and everything is great. I'll self sabotage and enter into risky transactions. And often give back part of the profits I've had made earlier. There's no rational reason, except that I enter into flashback mode and refeel the emotional distress constantly while the transaction's loss is getting bigger and bigger. Sometime, this is over 2-4 weeks. Actually, when the transaction is profitable, I don't take the profits. While, I let the losses get bigger. Which then trigger the inner critic's insulting and shame, guild invoking dialogue. Then enters toxic shame and spoils the rest of the day. Its like being struck in a time-loop. Have been doing this self-punishing for a few months now. Shows there's more healing to be done. And I'm struck in the same place for several years now. I also realize I have double binds in important areas of my life due not taking bold decisions and talking honestly.