's great post on doing vs being (https://www.skool.com/bethechange/who-are-you-being?p=07d61d4e) reminded me of a video I recorded that's part of the Activated component of the Illuminator (if you don't know what I mean by Illuminator or Activated, come check out The Primer in the classroom tab in my group) that talked about this subject, and identifying the being-orientated solution rather than just be fixated with the doing, which is what the video shows.
Have a watch, see what you think - can you relate examples from your life in the same manner?