The Transformation Roadmap · The Good Man Project

The Transformation Roadmap

Step One: Direction

Before we can identify what’s blocking your potential we must first understand what you want.

Your goals are not the end all be all, but they are extremely important so that we know what direction you want to take your life. Our goals are not measurements of worth; they are north stars that guide you toward your life’s desire.

Step Two: Why?

Why is this important to you?

There’s a deeper meaning beneath everything we do and everything we want. If you are going to fulfill your potential, you must understand what’s driving you. Because this journey will require you to face the parts of yourself that you don’t like and do things that you don’t want to do. But when you know WHY you’re doing this, you’ll be connected to something much more powerful than your fears. You’ll be connected to a purpose.

Step Three: Honest Audit

What’s the truth.

We all have patterns and realities that we don’t want people to find out. Whether it’s our friends, families, or partners, there are shadows in all of our stories.

We must be willing to look at these shadows and bring them to light if we are going to break through the glass ceiling we’ve placed on our lives.

Step Four: Evidence

To create the life we want, we must become the kind of person who deserves it.

Our brains don’t care about what we want to become. It only cares about consistency.

You are constantly creating meaning in everything you do, see, and hear. The game changer is becoming intentional with the meaning you attach to the things going on around you.

Self-signaling by taking small actions that reflect the kind of person you want to become is how you build evidence that you ARE that kind of person. This is no longer about wanting it’s about being.

Step Five: Progress

Keeping score.

The most addictive thing to the brain is progress. To create lasting habits that support the life you deserve you must track your progress. The key to this is to gamify your growth.

Creating a system that is not only simple to follow but fun to do is going to change everything about your life.

This isn’t about “efficiency” or “hacking” your progress this is about creating a feedback loop that you enjoy.

Step Six: Become.

This process is about connecting with a deeper drive to become the kind of person you’re proud of. The work here isn’t about the external results, but rather the internal values and identity.

When you become the kind of person who creates these results you will develop a belief in yourself that will help you achieve more than any goal or result would allow.

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