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Does this messaging resonate with you?
I'm currently writing the about page for this community and I'd love your thoughts. Here's the draft I'm working on: A Man Without Guidance Carries Wounds He Can't See. If you grew up without a strong, healthy male role model—or are still searching for what it means to be that man—you’re not alone. The truth is, until you heal the wounds left by the men who failed to teach you, you'll unknowingly pass that pain forward: in your relationships, your work, and even to your own children. The Good Man Project isn’t about hyper-masculinity or performative toughness. It’s about learning the real skills—Responsibility, Accountability, Dependability, and Credibility—that create a man others can trust, respect, and love. This is your invitation to a free community of men who are done pretending. Done avoiding the hard truths. Done feeling stuck. Inside, you’ll find the tools, conversations, and support to become the kind of man you can be proud of.
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My issue with being a “man” is I was raised by my father whose father was very stern and never really showed loved so my father went 180° and is my best friend but showed me how to “be a man” in a much softer kind of way. I wish the upbringing of fathers or caregivers didn’t play into the level of care we received. My father is a great man and one of my best friends, however; I don’t think he showed me the best blueprint for being a man because he was never shown one.
Vulnerability = Strength
I thought asking for help made me weak. So I didn’t ask. I thought admitting failure would make me less of a man. So I lied instead. I thought being vulnerable would push my fiancée away. But in reality, it’s what brought us closer. Vulnerability is not weakness. It’s integrity. And integrity is the foundation of trust. If you’re hiding your struggles because you’re afraid of being judged, I want you to know this: asking for help doesn’t make you less of a man. It makes you human.
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My fear in asking for help has always been the fear that I will be perceived as not capable or worse I will begin to think that about myself. The greatest athletes have coaches. We are all on this crazy journey we call life for the first time. It is ok to admit you need a hand
The Good Stuff 🍻
Just added a new Tab in our feed to celebrate the Good Stuff! As men we often brush off the good things we're doing in life and obsess over the dumb shit we've done or the small mistakes we've made. This is the place to celebrate all of things that you're proud of. Especially the small wins! Your first challenge is to go and share something you're proud of today!
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The Good Stuff 🍻
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I’m proud of myself for seeking out and staying consistent with seeing a therapist. Realizing that no part of me is broken and that I’m actually able to be a better version of myself through the work is tremendous
Self-Sabotage?
Good morning men, I'm going to focus a lot of time on Self-Sabotage: What it is and How to break free from. But first, let me ask you, is this something that you have struggled with? If so, what are some behaviors or habits that are currently holding you back from something you want to accomplish?
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@Matthew Paetz I think that resonates me with. The lack of committing to things is parallel to my fear of getting hurt or fear of reaching for the top. If I don’t fully try, there’s a built in reason why it didn’t work. Lessens the pain
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@Matthew Paetz 100%. I’ve been guilty of “kicking the can down the road” and not facing things I should have a long time ago. I know I get caught up in the difficulty of day to day life and do not want to address or face an issue/insecurity because I’m exhausted from daily life. One thing I’ve learned from therapy is, the sooner you face the issue, the less time it has to take root and grow into a bigger issue. AND you don’t have to face them alone. Lean into your friendships, seek out therapy, etc. There is strength and power in admitting you need help.
🫱🏼‍🫲🏽 Start Here
Welcome! The Good Man Project is a community where men learn how to break free from the toxic patterns that are secretly destroying their potential. Here's what to do first: Step 1: Introduce yourself below with this copy/paste template: What's your favorite movie? Where are you from? What's your goal inside this community? Don't forget to check out: Breakthrough Mini-Course Step 2: Best practices: 1) Have a profile photo. 2) Space out all your writings into single sentence paragraphs (like I'm doing here). 3) Welcome new members, make helpful posts, share your wins, and engage in the community to level up! Group Rules: 1) No Hate 2) No Self Promotion 3) No Spamming the Community Feed DON'T FORGET TO DOWNLOAD THE APP for easy access to the group!
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🫱🏼‍🫲🏽 Start Here
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What's your favorite movie? Friday. One of those movies I can quote and always laugh Where are you from? Orange County, CA What's your goal inside this community? Find a safe place to admit I have no idea what I’m doing in this thing we call manhood
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Garrett Souza
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Former police office who is struggling to find confidence in a life post brain injury

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