@Katie Muller and @Jake Muller atop the list again (remember couples combine scores) I'm seeing a lot of great activity in here, would love to hear in the replies, what experience are yall having from your participation?

I’m grateful my partner thinks through the bedtime & weekend nap time routines for our 18 mo old and considers her ever evolving needs.

I love how much my partner is the food commander, meal planning takes a lot of mental effort

I’m grateful Katie took on the emotional load of: - Getting our two bigger kids to bed tonight. They have a lot of routines and requests they want met, and it takes a lot patience and caring to put both of them to bed and help them get calm. - Asking for space when she needed it, recognizing that when we’re both coming to a conversation with heightened emotions will end up hurting us both. - Bringing up honest feelings about a medication change with our daughter’s doctor today, thinking through her well-being and how it impacts her ability to regulate and function at school. - Getting on a coaching call along with me to talk through struggles and shortcomings in a calm, gracious way.

I’m really grateful for my wife’s emotional labour: - Helping my daughter who is struggling with kindergarten drop-offs by walking her into her class this morning and having a hard conversation with the teacher about how our daughter could be better supported. - Organising a meal train for her friend who had a surgery and needed support - Suggesting I take a nap while she made dinner and watched the kids because she saw I was feeling run down - Taking the time to explain to me how a comment I had made had felt judgemental and not supportive to her, leading to a constructive conversation where I didn’t get defensive