It's 52 days to Christmas and I have decided that this year will be my year! For the last 4 years I have been sick or had tooth ache or generally just been a bit miserable and feeling sorry for myself. This may have been acceptable in my pre-kid days but with the littles running about super excited, it makes being sick all the more difficult. Over the next 50 days (because I'm letting loose come Christmas eve!!) I will document my journey into understanding how you can boost your immune system to stave off sickness and use my bespoke coaching framework to take action. Want to join me?? Comment 'Yes' below and let's work together to make this the least snivelly Christmas yet!!!

Welcome to The Village Learning Community. Together we will learn how to improve our wellbeing and become the mums and people we want to be. To get started on this life-changing journey, introduce yourself below then pop into the Classroom to find all the information you need. Start here to find information on how to navigate the platform, access the community charter and more. If you haven't done so already, download the Skool app to have the The Village at your fingertips. Get the iOS app here. Get the Android app here. I am so excited to meet you and work with you.

One of the key aims of The Village is to support you to better manage the stress and chaos of life with littles, so you can be the person you want to be and do the things you want to do. Each week I will introduce you to a different tool to enable you to do this. We all experience stress, it is a normal part of being a human being. Stress isn't actually inherently bad for us, and sometimes it can be a great motivator. However, too much stress in one go or prolonged stress over a period of time can cause us harm. The Stress Bucket model (developed by Dr Brabban and Turkington) is a great tool to help you think about what causes you stress, how you can better manage those stressors and what helps you release/reduce stress. It is also a great visualisation to help you understand why sometimes seemingly insignificant things may tip you over the edge. Why sometimes you feel like a study rock and other times you feel like you could just blow away in the wind. Below is my interpretation of this model and some guidance on how you can use it in your chaos. Imagine you have a bucket... - above it are clouds that rain into it and fill it up (things that cause you stress - can be positive or negative)... ...to stop the bucket from overflowing (leading to overwhelm and unwanted behaviours e.g. snapping at partner/withdrawing from friends/losing it with kids/engaging in non-healthful activities ***insert here your particular brand of crazy***), we can... - cover it with an umbrella to slow down the rain (stress management techniques/coping strategies - this is my addition to this model) - fit some taps to drain the rain water (stress reducing techniques/coping strategies) We all have different sized buckets: the bigger the bucket, the less vulnerable you are to stress. The smaller the bucket, the more vulnerable you are to stress. When you become a mum, the size of your bucket may change. We will also have a different number of clouds, different sized umbrellas, different number of holes etc and the water obviously fills up over time so some days we may start with a more full bucket and others we will start with plenty of room to fill (with snot, vomit and continuous noise!).

Happy Monday lovely ladies. I hope you had a lovely weekend. I have a little gift for you. I use a meditation and sleep app called Calm and I think you’d like it, too. Check it out: https://www.calm.com/gp/FAKAHPKR3HYNFFP7YJ With this code you can get a 30-Day guest pass. I find the guided meditations, sleep stories and soundscapes great. You have to find the voice you vibe though, some are really annoying. My faves are Eric Braa, Anna Acton, Cillian Murphy and Jerome Flynn. Body scan is a great intro to mindfulness meditation. I also love a train story (but that's just me!). They have stories and meditations you can use with kiddies and some movement mediations too. I have no affiliation with Calm, I just thought you might like it. If you check it out - comment on here and let the rest of the community know how you got on. Have a great rest of your day!

Hi All. I have been a little quiet in the village over the last few weeks as I've been on holiday and I wanted to focus on time spent with my littles before the littlest started nursery 😭😭 Last week was my first 'work week' and I thought very hard about what I wanted to achieve with this community and what my approach to helping mums be the best version of themselves will actually look like. I will post some more information in the coming weeks but I'm super excited to share this with you all. Q&As are cancelled for the time being but I am always available to answer questions so don't hesitate to reach out. Neena x