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URGENT

Need help saving my brothers life....

Busy so will keep it brief but he's 24, Uni degree in Chemistry, worked 2 years full-time and has now moved back home and is clearly lost and reaching ever closer to full incel.

Our relationship is pretty bad, partly due to his autism (not severe but for sure has an impact on social skill etc.) and partly due to my not putting enough effort in myself (I'm 19, working in remote high ticket sales also currently living at home.)

I've always been big on self-improvement since I was 16, found Kris and Hamza after a break-up so am pretty well versed in how he could turn his life around but...

The major issue here is breaking through that wall so he will listen to what I have to say and realise how impactful it would be on his life, currently taking slow steps (got him a journal and told him how to use it effectively) almost like exposure therapy but I'm basically walking on thin ice because if I step too far he will all together write off anything I have to say and reject any advice I give him.

I'm moving in start of January to the Alps to shred the slopes while working remote so I have 2 months to get him on my side. Need ideas, any input welcome🤝

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