My wife holds the mental load of finding the best fitting summer camps for my young kids. On top of that she also has to figure out what vacations we are taking the following summer so we are not paying for weeks they are not there. This has to be done by Christmas. Once we have this in place it falls on her to drop off and pick up. My kids are a lot and that puts her in the car with them close to an hour and half a day. That is on top of her busy job she has to get to.