Grateful that Laura made dill cream cheese with me this morning, even though the first conversation we had today was about me taking on an academic/social commitment without asking her, a sticking point in our relationship.
Grateful that Laura did emotional labor of answering budgeting questions, some of which I could have found the answers to myself.
Grateful that Laura kept the timing of our weekend plans in her head today, even though I currently have more free time/mental space.
Grateful that Laura interacted with our property manager (we are renters) about a task she had asked us to do today. I easily could have managed the task myself but wanted her to make sure I “did it right” (weaponized incompetence/making her the project manager)