20d ago (edited) in Nov 🏆
Day 1 of gratitude
  1. Grateful that Laura made dill cream cheese with me this morning, even though the first conversation we had today was about me taking on an academic/social commitment without asking her, a sticking point in our relationship.
  2. Grateful that Laura did emotional labor of answering budgeting questions, some of which I could have found the answers to myself.
  3. Grateful that Laura kept the timing of our weekend plans in her head today, even though I currently have more free time/mental space.
  4. Grateful that Laura interacted with our property manager (we are renters) about a task she had asked us to do today. I easily could have managed the task myself but wanted her to make sure I “did it right” (weaponized incompetence/making her the project manager)
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Drew Van Dyke
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Day 1 of gratitude
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