How Do I Do The Things I Don't WANT To Do
The 5 Second Rule, popularized by Mel Robbins in her book The 5 Second Rule, is a simple but powerful psychological tool designed to help overcome hesitation, procrastination, and self-doubt. The core principle is that when you have an impulse to take action, you have only five seconds to act before your brain talks you out of it. How It Works: 1. Recognize the Impulse: When you feel the desire or impulse to do something (e.g., exercise, start a task, speak up in a meeting), acknowledge that feeling. 2. Count Backwards from 5 to 1: When you realize you should act, start a mental countdown: "5-4-3-2-1." The idea is that this countdown interrupts habitual thinking and shifts your focus from excuses or doubt to the action itself. The countdown activates your prefrontal cortex, where decisions are made. 3. Act Immediately: Once you reach "1," you take immediate action. The key is to physically move (e.g., stand up, start writing, walk over to someone). The motion creates momentum, which is often enough to carry you through. Why It Works: The 5 Second Rule is based on a combination of psychology and neuroscience. Here's how: - Overcoming Procrastination: Our brains are wired to protect us from discomfort or risk. Even if the action you want to take is beneficial (like starting a workout or tackling a big project), your brain can interpret it as stressful. After 5 seconds of hesitation, your brain will likely come up with reasons not to do it ("I'll do it later" or "I don't feel like it right now"). The rule helps you bypass this mental block by acting quickly. - Building Confidence: By consistently using the rule, you gain confidence and trust in your ability to take action. The more you act in the moment, the less likely you are to hesitate in the future. - Rewiring Your Brain: Repeatedly interrupting your default thinking patterns with the countdown and immediate action helps create new, productive habits over time. Applications of the 5-Second Rule: