I'd like to know how you all get players to work together in a proactive model.
Here's something I've noticed: The more proactive I am as a player the more independent I become. My character wants to do something that doesn't necessarily align with what the other players want to do. In a reactive model, they all work together because they aren't thinking about what they want anyway. The DM gives them an objective, and they all do it.
So how does this work in a proactive model?