Hi everyone my name is Jordan Todd. I’m joined in the group by my wife Candice. We are new to FairPlay and look forward to growing with you all. We have been together for 12 years and married for three. Together we have a handsome 3 month old son and my 15 year old daughter to whom Candice is a wonderful step mom. We live out in the Oklahoma City area so definitely say hello if you’re ever in town. For work I run my own trucking company and Candice is a licensed Physical Therapist and is active duty Military. Our goal is to get back on track by utilizing and practice some of the methods offered in this program. We can only hope that everyone sees the same growth and success in their relationship that we are hoping to experience in our own.

(Join Mental Load Basics to join the challenge: https://www.skool.com/mentalloadbasics/about) -keeping track of what we are running out of for cleaning supplies (although we have a list I will add things to ) -checking if we have enough tp -keeping our plants watered and if necessary rotating them for optimal visibility -ordering more liquid handsoap if our filler were to run out

I wanted to provide an update on the challenge I announced at the end of August where men could earn a $200 date night by identifying the mental load of their partners. October we are going to reverse it. Both Men and women can participate. Same prize but identifying the mental load that the men are contributing to the family. One thing that has been interesting is how many submissions I’ve had to correct, the difference between domestic labor and cognitive labor. 1. @Ben Blayney (52 pts) 2. @David Perlow (49 pts) 3. @Joshua Nelson (44 pts) 4. T - @Bryan Schollenberger (34 pts) @Eduardo Martínez (34 pts) 5. Ryan Muscott (29 pts) All together there have been 451 points scored, meaning yall have identified that many instances of mental load for your partners, you are the men that understand mental load that my 900k+ women audience (90% of 1.1M) have been looking for!

This is a game changer for us. I didn't expect it to be this effective but it managed twice now to really de-escalate us from very bad fights. Thank you for introducing this tool

If your household responsibilities were turned into a reality TV show, which task would cause the most drama and why?