STOP CHASING IT - MAKE IT CHASE YOU.
You can’t have anything you want. When you come from a place of desire, from a place of wanting, you are resonating that you are currently not ok. That there is a sense of lack that’s vibrating within you right now. That you are not fulfilled and the only way to become truly fulfilled is if you finally achieve that which you want. “I’ll be happy once I have that fat bank account, those material possessions, that loving relationship, that banging body, that level of success… I’ll be fine then. Right now though, until I get all of that, I am not fine.” Yet whatever you persist in will resist. Think of a time when someone clingy could not stop chasing you—how did it make you feel? Did their energy make you move in closer to them, or make you run astray? Of course, you wanted to run for the hills! It’s the same with any form of desire. The more you try to chase it, the more it will turn its back. Desiring success is a bit like a shadow; the more you pursue it, the more it turns its back on you. Rather than doing all the chasing, make it chase you. Turn your back and forget about it. Stop wanting, start willing. Start willing to work hard, start willing to perform all the daily disciplines. And here’s the biggest secret: Do so by expecting a ZERO RETURN on your investment. Start making yourself more valuable to the marketplace, without the desire to produce specific results. Detach yourself from always needing to produce specific outcomes. Only when you want for nothing will you attract everything. When you really, really want something, it sends out a message that you really, really aren’t currently ok. This resistance is what you will keep attracting into your life—not being ok. Transformation only takes place from being aware that nothing materialistic will ever make you happy. Because once you’ve achieved all of the things you thought would make you happy, the ego will naturally cause you to strive for that next thing you currently don’t have.