So I never had problems making friends or just walking up to someone and having a conversation with them, but recently I realized that whenever someone’s complimenting me I always compliment them back and how I lowkey want people to like me when I’m taking to them which actually might push them away from me so like do you guys have any advice on how not to be a people pleaser?

I'm curious to know who are some of your guy's inspirations/who you look up to most and why you look up to them. I really look up to Ali Abdaal currently because I admire the amount of influence and community he has been able to build in such a short amount of time as well as his business success and character.

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