The 9 Steps you Need to get your Life & Business Shit Together
1. Change Your Environment - Evaluate your environment and surroundings. - If it's not conducive to growth, change it. - Look at your friend group. You're influenced by the people you allow to impact your life, not just those around you. - Consider a drastic change if needed—move cities, switch jobs, or start afresh with new people who are ahead of you in life. 2. Just Do It (JFDI – Just Freaking Do It) - Close the gap between knowing and doing. - The more you think and hesitate, the less you act. - Whenever you read a good piece of advice, instead of sitting on it, immediately put it into action. - Overthinking delays results—stop analyzing and start executing. 3. Don’t Blame Anyone or Anything - Take full responsibility for your actions and outcomes. - Don’t blame others for your circumstances. - Lead by example: If you want people around you to change, change yourself first. - Avoid deferring control to others. You can still succeed without waiting for someone else to act. 4. Avoid the Dragon (Don’t Try to Slay It) - Design your life to make decisions easier. - Don’t test your willpower when it’s unnecessary. - Simplify difficult situations. For example, remove unhealthy snacks from your house if you’re trying to eat healthily. - Avoid situations that will challenge your discipline unnecessarily. 5. Stop Being So Critical of Yourself - Shift your focus from self-criticism to a broader vision of what you're building for your future. - When self-doubt arises, focus on gratitude, vision, exercise, or helping others to break the negative cycle. - Be careful not to beat yourself up unnecessarily. - Self-criticism can hinder performance rather than improve it. 6. Replace Negative Habits with Positive Ones - Identify the trigger for each negative habit and replace it with a productive alternative.Example: If you’re trying to quit smoking, replace it with toothpicks or doing push-ups. - Ensure that when you stop a bad habit, you immediately introduce a positive one in its place.