To lead others effectively, you must first hold yourself to a high standard. This principle applies not only to your actions but also to how you carry yourself in every situation. People naturally respond to energy, and the way you perceive and treat yourself is something that others can sense on a deeper level. If you don't value yourself, how can you expect anyone else to? The key is to care for yourself, to nurture your own growth and well-being, and to invest time in your personal development. When you do this, you send a clear message to the world that you are worthy of respect and that you have something valuable to offer. It’s not just about self-care in the traditional sense, but about truly believing in your capabilities and potential. When you neglect this, the lack of belief in yourself becomes evident to others. Whether it's through your words, body language, or the energy you project, people pick up on it. And if you don’t fully believe in the vision you're trying to communicate, neither will they. Conversely, when you set high expectations for yourself and meet them, others will follow your lead. They’ll recognize the effort and dedication you’ve put into your own growth and success. By becoming your own biggest advocate, you create a magnetic effect—people are drawn to your vision because they can see you believe in it. Ultimately, it all starts with you. Hold yourself to the highest standard, invest in your own well-being and growth, and watch as others begin to follow your lead, inspired by the value and confidence you bring to the table.

Thinking right is a skill. It’s not easy..You have to train yourself and be mindful when your mind slips!

"What you resist persists, and what you embrace becomes into grace, and grace is a gift." This quote touches on the power of acceptance. When you resist something—whether it’s a challenge, fear, or negative emotion—it continues to weigh on you, persisting in your life. Resistance creates tension, and that tension holds you back, trapping you in fear and anxiety. However, when you choose to embrace these struggles, fears, or uncertainties, they transform. Instead of fighting against them, you accept them as part of your journey, and in that acceptance, you find grace—a calmness and clarity that brings strength, wisdom, and personal growth. To break free of the fear of success, you must shift your mindset. Fear is often rooted in doubt—doubt about whether you're deserving of success, whether you're capable, or whether you’ll fail. These doubts and fears persist when you resist them. The key to overcoming them is to embrace your potential and accept that you are meant to grow, help others, and use your unique talents. When you stop resisting and start embracing your gifts, your path to success becomes clearer. Instead of holding onto fear, you begin to trust in yourself, and that trust opens the door to grace—a state where you are empowered to help others, lead with confidence, and live with purpose. Your gifts are not just for you; they are meant to be shared. Embrace your potential, and in doing so, you'll find the freedom to rise above fear and contribute to the world around you.

1. LEAD YOURSELF you are the hero you’ve been looking for. Stop waiting to be rescued… Own your choices, trust your intuition and create your own reality. 2. EMBRACE FLOW Align yourself with your true purpose, let the magic unfold, and have fun on the journey - because that’s where sustainable success lies. 3. HOLD YOUR STANDARDS If you don’t have standards, you don’t have freedom. Serve others, do work you love (with boundaries you protect) and get paid what you’re worth. Anything less is less than you deserve. 4. PURSUE MINIMALISM Complexity kills, fancy fails, but simple scales. Focus on where your passion, skills, & results collide. Protect your time, energy, profits & results - everything else is noise. 5. ATTRACT, DON’T CHASE Your true power doesn’t force - it draws effortlessly. Pull, don't push. Let go of the desperate persona, and step into the realm of leadership & authority. 6. CREATE, DON’T COMPETE Your uniqueness is your advantage. Create authentically, and make competition irrelevant by building what only you can. 7. BE A GUIDE Empower others to take control of their own outcomes. They don’t need another boss—they need someone who can pave the way and encourage them to navigate their path. 8. SERVE OBSESSIVELY When you’re deeply committed to helping others, the universe aligns. if they win, you win, everyone wins. You’re not here to just make money - you’re here to create a movement. 9. MASTER YOUR INNER GAME The external mirrors the internal. Everything starts from within. Master your emotions, beliefs, and focus, and you’ll master your results. 10. BE A SCIENTIST Everything works, you just have to find what works best for you. Test, iterate & optimize. Take risks, and let go of the idea there’s one “right” way. There is no failing, only learning. This is the way.

This guide emphasizes the importance of creating as the foundation for bringing your desired life into existence. To "create" means to actively bring something into being through your thoughts, actions, and intentions. If you don't actively create, what you want will not exist, and stagnation or regression will follow. https://docs.google.com/document/d/1Zz-0pbywAx475OJnJ880bN6DZAMxiJo_KU1pxpimIR4/edit?usp=sharing