I can handle this. I'm here. I've got you. Self-confidence is not rigid or detached. That's a mask that immature men wear to protect themselves. Self-confidence is generated by repeatedly opening up to experience what is happening in your body. What a paradox. The strongest men are the ones who learn to be vulnerable, surrender, and open. To be witnessed. To be held. To trust another man and learn to open your heart. Men on the outside have no idea what they are missing. They must be initiated. They anxiously twist, force, and hurt themselves, trying and pushing and struggling to overcome and heroically concur their life. The men who find their way to The Unshakable Man discover their power is found by opening. It's so opposite of what our culture says. But when men sit together, they can feel it, especially if a man like me invites them deeper. This past weekend was the culmination of a lifetime of work. 39 years. The ease. The grace. The power. The joy. All emotions are welcome here. These men learned to work with their shadow and to awaken their inner Unshakable Man. I can feel the energy of my personal practice, allowing me to hold these spaces. This past year was a year of expansion. Learning to host these amazing retreats. It's been a fantastic labor of love. I am so profoundly thankful for all the men who have stepped forward. My fiance @anna_michele_ prepared amazing meals. I often cried as I realized we were doing this together. She was making this work possible in so many ways. All of the work I've done and we've done together was making this possible. My friend Dr. Chris Spromberg @amomentamile stood by my side. I've witnessed this man finding his gifts and opening to new levels of authenticity. I feel his trust in me and appreciate his direction and feedback each step of the way. We returned to our home location @bellvalleyretreat to host our 3rd retreat of the year. The men who showed up had never met. They came from all around. In four days, their entire bodies and faces changed.

Hi Brothers. Dr. Chris Spromberg and I will host a live talk show-style Q&A session for men interested in attending a TUM Retreat. We are inviting all alumni to attend to share their perspectives for 2-3 min each. Please post any questions you want us to answer in the comments. This is also open to men who want to attend to ask questions. Wednesday, August 9th @ Noon PST The link to the event can be found in the calendar here. Here is the direct zoom link.

Men - Life is calling you to show show up! As the seasons change another cohort begins. Our 14th Cohort of The Unshakable Man Program just began. 20 men have answered the call. These men are courageous. When these men individually step forward their presence in turn co-create the container for other men to do their work. It's a beutiful and awe inspiring experience to be a part of. It's beutiful and challenging and fun and inspiring. Who will join us for our next retreat in northern California? When we intentionally create space in our lives to slow down, to connect to nature, and to heal we create a ripple of love that spreads out into all of our relationships. - Our relationship with ourselves - Our relationship with our partners, family, friends, and community - Our relationship with our pain, trauma, anxieties, and fears - Our relationship with our vision and our gift to the world - Our relationship with everyone and everything This won't happen by default. The default is to survive. The default is embedded in our nervous systems. The default is to protect ourselves and our hearts. But... and this is a big BUT... when we realize this is what happens and we take responsibility for how we respond to our problems, our challenges and our life we create the opportunity to respond in more empowering and conscious ways. This is real leadership. This is what it means to awaken you inner unshakable man. Our next TUM Embodied Leadership Retreat is officially open for registration. Questions? Click here to schedule a retreat info call: https://keap.app/booking/chriswilson/mens-retreat-info-session Hold your spot! Click here to register on a 3 month payment plan: https://keap.app/checkout/izy634/3-month-payment-plan Get in touch email team@unshakableman.com with any questions Join the Free Unshakable Man Community at Unshakableman.com/community