9/19 - Buying clothes · Mental Load Basics

9/19 - Buying clothes

While this has slowed down in recent months as our kiddos growth has greatly decreased in speed compared to the first year it is still a big one.

Over that first year she

- Was on a constant hunt for deals on the next size up! Sitting in bed, scrolling through some clothes, car ride? Scrolling through clothes and whatnot

- Closely monitored and checked in on the fit as she had a consistent concern of making sure the clothes fit just right and were not too tight

- This included taking the time to send me the carts of items to cross check and make sure that I liked it all too! Meaning before she ordered or checked out she was taking the time to pump the brakes, take a few more mental steps and make sure i love it too!

- When it came time to unload all of these items and list them for sale, she spearheaded it. Even when I asked why i couldn’t she wanted to make sure it was done properly. (one of the few times very early in having a kid that I actually saw the mental load she was trying to take on and I made sure i was a part of this)

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