Elevating Above the Noise
I want to tell a story about a customer of mine who I wanted to do business with for 3 years now and finally succeeded to engage with only two months ago. High status customer, well connected to politicians, runs a charity, has a large network of content makers and can afford to work with anyone. My early cold reachout attempts yielded no response and I moved on. I kept networking with people in the industry and did a lot of good things to a lot of folks. After 2 years of doing good and expecting nothing in return I happened to work with someone who is very close to my client. All the good things I've done were speaking volumes about me and randomly (or it felt like it then) I was invited to an event that was organized by that client (which I didn't know about). Turns out that people at the event were well aware of my podcasting and other activities. When I showed up, the organizers asked to co-emcee the event, which put me in the spotlight. After the event the client approached me and said that they've heard a lot of good things about me. We talking about future plans, motivations, drivers and common interests. There I got invited to help with their next event. I showed up and delivered. Got invitation to next one with a bigger invoice and so on. Takeaways: 1. Do good to people and expect nothing back. That said have a framework to identify value takers and phase them out; 2. High status folks have a lot of options and direct selling to them is quite inefficient; 3. Elevate above the noise through action. People will talk about you, both good and bad things. Remember - words are nothing and actions are everything. It is difficult to deny good deeds. Do not listen to words, focus on being awesome (I'll attribute this quote to @Anthony DiRico ) 4. When you do good things for high status people, they reciprocate. Often very generously.