On this lovely Friday, I would like to remind you that your authenticity is a true superpower—it allows you to live in harmony with your values and purpose, attracting the people and opportunities meant for you 🌟. When you’re true to yourself, you no longer feel pressured to meet others’ expectations, freeing up your energy to focus on what truly matters 💪. This clarity brings confidence and resilience, empowering you to face challenges without the weight of judgment or rejection 🛡️. Being authentic also lights a path for others ✨. By openly sharing your strengths and vulnerabilities, you invite others to do the same, creating deeper, more trusting connections 🤝. Embrace your authenticity, and unlock the unique potential within you 🌱; it not only transforms your life but also inspires those around you to do the same 🌈. Be your superhero self today!! Wishing all a great Friday!

We're led to believe that goal setting is the way to go to move forward in our lives. We even set time limits on them - 5 year, 6 months, 10 years, whatever. And yet, we may be forgetting certain facets about them, which leads them to being half-baked, yet something we still hook everything regarding our self worth on and us getting stuck. When this happens, we can ask ourselves 3 little questions: Why, when and what? Let's start with why: For those of you who were around in the 90s or who like delving into nostalgia, who remembers Mindy from the cartoon Animaniacs - always asking “Why?” over and over? It might have driven her dog, Buttons, up the wall, but there’s actually a lot of wisdom in her constant questioning. When we set goals—whether it’s to find a partner, lose weight, or land a big promotion—we often don’t dig deep enough. We tell ourselves we want something, but how often do we ask, “Why do I want this? Now some might say, 'I don't know why' - which is where we can use the other 2 questions to help - when and what? Take the goal of losing weight. We can have a conversation with ourselves in the style of the below example: - Why do you want to lose weight? - Because it’ll make me feel good and confident. - What will feeling confident bring you? - I’ll feel comfortable in my own skin and capable of more. - And what will being capable bring you? - I’ll have the freedom to do more in life, maybe take on new adventures I’ve been avoiding Suddenly, you see that the real desire is about feeling worthy, accepted, and free—things tied not to weight, but to self-worth. Too often, we set external goals because we believe achieving them will solve an internal struggle. But no amount of external validation will fill the void of low self-worth. When we don’t ask “Why?” or “What will that bring me?” we miss the chance to realize the deeper issues driving us. So next time you set a goal, take a cue from Mindy. Ask "Why?" repeatedly. Follow it up with “What will that bring me?” and “When will I feel whole enough?” You'll likely find that the real journey isn’t about hitting that external milestone, but about healing the part of you that feels incomplete without it. 🌱

"IF I can hide my flaws and become what I think others want me to be THEN I will be loved, get my needs met, and have a problem-free life." Who out of the 3 options does this sound like to you?

Mate @Vishad Doshi , it's one of the mind blowing exercise mate I have done in my life , as I said your stuff are awesome and my experiences made me realize many things about my being as you said I didn't force myself this time or set too much short time limit mate and I just sit down started to write what are my thoughts that are flowing about What do you want your life to look like? I took a moment to notice that my hate is particularly high in certain area but I don't know why it is so so as you said find I don’t want/like I don’t want/like one of the worst experience In life is to be surrounded by colleagues where they keep on clapping for your victory but you feel like shit inside and still smiling to the outside world Even more ridiculous BS 🤬 is when you're lead is ready to migrate to another company for his own good but freaking recommending you to stay in the company even after I rejected the offer for 2 times saying I feel like shit inside, I can not go longer I said I need rest for minimum 6 months they counter with the same shit universal diagloue of Boomers I am saying for your own good, don't quit the moment I joined the job I knew I am too good for this freaking company and envisioned one day I will be leaving the company to purse something beyond In my experience of working hard till burnout in AWS cloud real time project for my company , I realized now biggest assest is NOT DATA OR INFORMATION but creating a place and path where DATA AND INFORMATION FLOWS NATURALLY as Human are lazy oops path of least resistance creatures, they go with the flow. ................. my job is to critique and automate the current infrastructure laid out plan one day I critiqued major security issue, what he said still rings in my mind It shouldn't be the thing we should be leaving alone but what else we do if our allocated budget isn't meant to cover the security aspects but only functional aspects my lead always used to say

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