“I don’t even know who I am anymore.” 😥 This is a common thought that women over 45 have when they’ve become empty nesters and begin to enter their Legacy Era. If you’re like me, you spent decades taking care of children. My identity became “Mom”. 🙍🏼‍♀️ Everything I did was scheduled around the children’s schedules, wants, and needs. At one point, I had to quit my main job because my daughter was regularly sick. I then worked 3 part-time jobs to bring in enough money to keep us afloat. I delivered newspapers before my (ex)-husband went to work. I did data entry at home. And I babysat a friend’s child. That was in addition to taking care of my 3 kids. Eventually, I returned to working full-time. And then I married my current husband who has 2 kids. So we had 5 kids who were only 6 years apart! 🫨 Life was chaotic. I had little time for me. And as time passed, I gave up all of my hobbies. I didn’t even read books anymore. 😥 My identity was totally wrapped up in my kids and my work. And eventually I started my own business. Now I also was taking care of clients and THEIR needs. It felt like I was ALWAYS working. Chanin and her desires and needs disappeared overall. And if I DID do anything that was just for me (like taking an online college course), I felt guilty. My life was about kids, my husband, and my business (making money.) I’ll continue the story tomorrow. I’d love to hear if any of you resonate with this scenario! ⬇️ And if you're ready to finally put YOUR needs first after decades of serving others, DM me about The DIVA Path - a 90-day hybrid program designed specifically for women like you — moms who have given so much to their families and are now ready to honor their own dreams. Through transformative energy work and aligned guidance, you’ll remember who the f* you are, gain the clarity to balance your family with your purpose, and start creating a legacy that reflects who YOU are. The doors are open. Will you have the courage to cross the threshold and walk through to your new life?

A family man.♦️ A religious man. An accomplished man. A passionate man. A prestigious man. A man with a reputation. ♦️ U knew him first from what others said about him. And what they said changed from circle to circle. ♦️ But every circle spoke of him as a hero. He did his best to never let the circles collide. 5 kids from two marriages. The first was short. The second longer. 20 something years with her. His life was like a feel good old time western.♦️ Complete with the cattle ranch, firearms, and cowboy hat. The land HIS by birthright. His last name was written in history books. His bloodline some of the first settlers. A family that held local political offices and had streets named after them. ♦️Everything a MAN’s man could want.♦️ Then she found out. To be honest she should have known. ♦️It had been sexless for years.♦️ Not that it mattered he was still knocking her up w/ babies when he met his mistress. 17 years of the 20 something he kept her on the side. U see. Sex was his passion.♦️The rest of his life was a hobby. Annnnnnd he married the wrong woman. But that religious shit made him stay when he knew he needed out. He wasn’t promiscuous. He didn’t womanize it was just the one. ♦️He NEEDED sex to be CENTRAL to his relationship.♦️ The core feature that the rest of the marriage emanated from. But she… well she was religious and missionary regular enough was her way. He♦️needed passion. Romance. Fun. Exploration. Real intimacy. Real ecstasy. Real desire. And super willing participation. The headaches. The kids on her nerves. The church charity. And the fact she was a teacher. None of that ended up in lingerie. Sexy quickies. Flirting, foreplay or even head. And entire marriage ZERO blow jobs. Sex is important.♦️ Very. And sexual compatibility is underrated. ♦️♦️ The disconnect is a slow burn to hell. When she found out that’s where she wanted him in hell. A scorned woman. A SCORCHED man. But it was his fault. To be honest. And he was. He took full responsibility and never denied he was wrong. He knew early on the sex didn’t click. ♦️♦️

Manifesting a reality that truly serves your highest self begins with a shift in awareness. If your choices and focus are rooted solely in individual gain, you remain entangled in the ego’s web—a space of separation, scarcity, and effortful striving. When you attempt to manipulate reality through sheer will, bending the universe to match your mental calculations, you move out of harmony with the natural spiritual laws that govern creation. Instead of flowing with the infinite intelligence of the cosmos, you pit yourself against it, struggling to force outcomes rather than allowing them to unfold. You may think, "I just want what I want. I can work hard and make things happen for me." But how has that truly served you? Does hustling, forcing, and pushing feel expansive? Does it connect you to joy, flow, and ease—or leave you exhausted, chasing endlessly for "more"? Now, consider this: What if there was another way? 👀Aligning with Universal Flow👀 Your desires are not random; they are whispers of potential seeded in your soul. They are invitations to create your reality from an infinite well of resources at your disposal. But the journey from thought to form is not passive—it is an interplay of surrender and alignment, of being shaped by your desires even as you shape the world. To enter this flow, you must move beyond thinking about your desires and step into thinking from your desires. This is the heart of the 4D Flow State—a state where your inner dialogue harmonizes with the higher rhythms of the universe. Here, your desires guide you, revealing their path of manifestation not through force, but through inspired action rooted in integrity. When you let your desires lead, they move not just for your benefit, but for the highest good of all. Because the energy giving your desire LIFE is the expansive nature of Consciousness itself, speaking through and moving through you as an agent of that divinity. For this reason, never minimize, downplay or compromise on your desires!

And yet that inner turmoil only grows stronger. Here's what most high-achievers miss: - Force creates resistance. - Every push drains your energy. - Every grip tightens the trap. I've guided hundreds of successful men to this revelation - from CEOs burning down their empires to leaders losing their families while ‘crushing it.’ True power? It doesn't exhaust. It energises. It doesn't control. It aligns. Like Martin, who set off on a path to rebuild his empire within 6 months after one session with me - this time with presence, peace, and pure aligned power. - No endless therapy - No 5AM routines - No mindset hacks Just a proven system that transforms perfectionism from your prison into your competitive edge. I'm selecting 10 (now 8) men for a breakthrough case study of single 1-to-1 sessions. If you're ready to stop forcing and start flowing, DM me to see if you qualify.

Where, in your life or business, are you coasting on “good enough” when deep down you feel that itch—the one that tells you something’s missing? It's time to let go of any ideas about Impostor Syndrome or believing there's any such thing as an Inferiority Complex. They're completely made up and are only REAL if you believe they are. Let me help by first asking you a powerful question.... Can you accept the possibility that you may not be showing up as powerfully as you could in your life and business BECAUSE you believe you might be inferior or an impostor? What if these premises didn't actually exist? What if they never did? What if these ideas are completely made up? (AHEM: They are.) This is not to say that someone, maybe even you, can have the experience of one or both of these things being true. However, whatever you BELIEVE is true for you, IS. You may have even felt yourself to be inferior or as being an impostor, but does that make it true? Is it more likely that you misperceived an experience you had because you compared yourself unfavorably to someone else and arrived at incorrect conclusions? You see you can't have any experience of inferiority or arrive at some self-judgment of being an impostor unless it is being compared to someone or something that we believe is NOT THAT. We often judge ourselves and measure our worth not against our own standards of what is normal, but by what we misconstrue about outside standards of normal imposed by other people. There is no such thing as a universal standard of normal. Yet, many of us are convinced we're not normal because in some or many ways, we don't measure up to some nebulous universal standard or even someone else's individual standard of normal that doesn't actually exist. For instance, I am very, very good at tuning into a client and pinpointing the underlying root causes of whatever problem they're experiencing when they come to me with a symptom of that problem, causing them all kinds of mayhem. It is natural to me.