Realized A Lot Of My Bad Habits Come From Avoidance

So, here’s the thing: I’ve realized I’m not exactly the most straightforward person. 🤔 I lie, keep secrets, and sometimes use manipulation instead of being upfront. I procrastinate on things I don’t want to do, go on my phone, or numb myself instead of actually feeling my emotions. 📱😶

I’ve ghosted people before—honestly, a lot—and mostly those I don’t know well. 👻 It’s not something I’m proud of. And even online, I use a ton of qualifiers like “maybe” instead of just stating my opinion directly. It’s like I’m afraid of being too firm or certain. 😬

But here’s the deal: I’ve started realizing this is a major flaw, and fixing it could seriously improve my life. 🌟 The big question now is... where do I even start? 🤷‍♂️

Would love any advice or insights from those who’ve worked through similar struggles. 🙌

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