May 15 in General discussion
Something hit me today
We have all heard the term "outcome independence" but I never really applied it to how I interact with girls I'm interested in. I am a bartender and a damn good one. All the girls love coming in when I'm working because I treat them all the same, they all get the same attention, little flirty jokes and the playfulness they want to escape their boring days. I do this because I don't care about trying to get any of them home. Just the other night a girl and her friend where sitting there and one put her head in hands, like she was caught doing something shameful. Well we have flowers that we use to garnish some drinks with petals. So I took a flower walked over and placed in right in her hair over her ear without saying a word and than went back to what I was doing. She blushed and later that night I talked to them off and on in between other guests. I was just amusing myself. Never used this style on a girl I was interested in because I had that fear of failure. What I realized was that I need to be the same guy I am at work with all the random girls I pass by.
Side note: the flower girl left me her number
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Something hit me today
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