{SHARE} : “Last Time You Got Laid?”

I came across a video from “Playing With Fire” that slid into my algorithm this morning and the title as catchy enough for me to take the bait : Asking Girls When They Last Got Laid.

I’ve watched Alex’s material in the past, and it’s generally pretty neutral and not as sperg as most other dating channels. This is basically a man on the street type video, walking up to random chicks in downtown Miami and asking them the last time they had sex.

Now I realize people won’t always respond/report accurately, so we need to take the videos with a grain of salt, but I still couldn’t help but find the video very eye opening. I’d ask all of you guys to give it a watch, it’s only 7mins and brings up some excellent talking points that most RP videos brainwash us into thinking is impossible. Here were my take aways :

Not every girl walking the streets is throwing her pussy at multiple guys. Take a listen and see how many girls aren’t very sexually active, and a few even complaining half heartedly about not getting laid enough.

2. When Alex asks where they met their last lay, pay attention to the sources. Very little social media, only 1-2 from dating apps, the majority was SOCIAL CIRCLE. Paul reminds us of this all the time : real life is undefeated in seduction. Notice there weren’t many girls (if any) who said a Chad picked them up at the grocery store and smashed? Most of these girls were getting fucked by guys organically.

3. I was really surprised how many girls had fucked guys in their orbit for YEARS. Maybe I shouldn’t be shocked at this point, but I think the 2 big take aways are playing it cool and being ok with “friends” if you don’t smash, but the elephant in the room : DONT LET YOUR GIRL HAVE GUY FRIENDS AND ORBITERS. It would be great it all these guys were confident men who respected boundaries, but I’d bet most of them were weasels. I’d also be curious how many of these old “friends” were getting action AFTER the girl broke up with a higher value guy…

4. Another common theme here was CONNECTION. And again I know girls don’t always know why they fuck the guys they do, but very little of it was looks. Most reasoning was the vibe, the chemistry, emotional connection etc. A common issue I think I run into is gaming too much. Using “game” and “rizz” to draw a girl closer to me comes very natural, but it’s very surface level. This video was a reminder to me to balance the flirty banter with meaningful conversation.

I’ll post the link below, but I’d love to hear feedback from the group.

@Paul Benjamin

what are you thoughts? Particularly on point 3 and 4.

https://youtu.be/i8jrSwXLAr8?si=jjtaKhY9Ei8YRPqk

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