Repost from Apex Mindset video "When Sex Goes Down in a Relationship...

This is my first post here, and is a repost from Paul's latest video on "When sex goes down in a relationship..."

I'm reposting at Paul's request, as he wants further discussion on the topic.

Here goes:

Paul, I have to say this video is probably hard to hear for many men, but very necessary and true. I hope men will set aside their ego & really look logically at this content & accept that their woman probably won't ever tell him what she's thinking, but I guarantee she is.

That being said, I'd like to bring up a point that I've done many years of anecdotal research, if you will, as I have asked many women the following question. "Do you still remember your 'first kiss'? Which in womanese is a euphemism for their first sexual experience.

I got the idea of even asking this question from my mother, of all people, from what she told me many years ago. She opined when I was a teenager (some 40 years ago) that a woman NEVER forgets her 'first kiss'. So, over the years, I have a tendency to ask lots of women about their 'first kiss' just as a opinion poll about whether or not my mother was correct, or if it was just in her head.

I have gotten a few responses like: "yes, and it was a terrible experience".

But most women say, "Yes, I'll never forget him". Or something to that effect.

What I find really interesting is that when I ask the question, I can visibly see that they are mentally taking themselves back in time, and their micro expressions are that of fondness or overall a positive experience.

Now that I've set up the situation, I'll get to the point of this comment.

Almost every 'modern' relationship a man attempts to have with a woman, who is most likely not a virgin when they meet, is going to have to overcome this hurdle, which is daunting, and he'll likely have to become a sexual tyrannosaurus to genuinely overcome her 'first kiss'.

And you are correct, the majority of becoming that impressive lover, mostly comes out of the bedroom. Actually, IMHO, the bedroom & her enthusiasm would be the gauge from which to judge if you are doing the job of creating sexual tension in her mind. And are being her 'sexual best'.

There is another factor to my thesis here too. The fact that studies have shown that the average age of a females first sexual experience is 15 years old. That means that a full 1/2 of women polled, were even younger than that. Added to the fact that at 15, young people are extremely impressionable, & likely to carry those impressions into their lives moving forward.

To that point, women's average age of first sexual experience is literally years younger than what's considered 'legal' in the west, I just wonder who's doing all the 'poaching', or getting these young women "Out of season"?

So, to sum this all up, Men must become such a great lover that he has to be able to F her memories away, in order to become her sexual best.

Most men I talk to about this concept, claim that they don't care, or that their ego is so high that they claim that they don't need any help in that area, that they are her sexual best, only to find out a few years later, in divorce court, when she's Fing some other dude, and they probably should have listened to me, years earlier.

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