Sep 10 in Field Reports
Not sure how to approach a girl I had a date with and how to gauge her interest on next meeting
Hi everyone.
Recently I met a girl through online (she's 20). We hit a good vibe on Instagram with some teasing and jokes in there and agreed to go for a date. I chose a cozy coffee place which allows us to talk closely.
On the date, she was very talkative and gave a lot of information on how much stuff she has in her life, things she's doing and wants to do, and as a good listener I just let her talk, occasionally throwing in some things about me. We have things in common but she wasn't asking much about me, rather talking more about herself.
We still had a great talk and as cafe closed I asked her if she'd like to move to a bar and she agreed, and we spent another hour in a bar with a good atmosphere. I made a mistake of not asking the waiter to switch our table so I could sit closer to her and thus I couldn't get any touching going on. (A mistake I fixed on the next date at this exact same bar with another girl).
We still had a good time just talking though and at the end of the date I asked her what she's looking for. She said she's looking for new aquaintances, and if a relationship happens, it will happen, but nothing serious as she's busy. I am completely fine with that, but here are my questions finally:
She's always very busy and we probably will meet only on next week (2 weeks since the first date). How do I overall treat this type of "success" girl relating to me behaving around her, how do I escalate and gauge her interest in me? From what I saw before, I can't really say she's that interested in sleeping with me and if I force level 2 or 3 behaviours I feel like she could be scared off
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