16d ago (edited) in Inner Game
Need input on how to be more fun / actually have more fun in my life
In general I’d say a large sticking point I have is I feel as if I don’t know how to have fun sometimes. Surely this stems from inner game issue. I’m very good at suffering through things(training, doing things I don’t want to do etc) as well as can talk anyone’s ear off about serious topics I’m passionate about. If I’m on a date being playful and fun doesn’t come easy to me. I can do it either with my friends or roommate but on a date it’s not there. If it’s fun for her to discuss biochemistry or whatever other serious topics I study then I’d be golden lol.
But the second piece to this is I don’t feel like I actually know how to enjoy myself. To me hard training is fun, or being a noob at a new skill and working hard at it. But I mean being able to let loose, or be playful. Especially with females. Which also leads into something else for me, I don’t know how to setup a “landing page” or IG that shows an interesting day to day when mostly I’m running surveillance in a van, cooking steak or in the gym. I do know for dating apps my photos are shit, but should I get a photo shoot done or try to get pics living my life more? Any ideas on how to enjoy my life more, let loose and be more playful?
All help would be appreciated!
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Need input on how to be more fun / actually have more fun in my life
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