{ASK} : Spicing Things Up 👫🛏️🌶️

We spend a lot of time in here talking about frame and dating, but I thought it’d be a nice change of pace to talk about an often neglected area : the bedroom.

For the last 3.5 years I’ve been in an LTR that’s been exclusive on her end, and open on my end ONLY if it’s to source women for threesomes. Needless to say it was a lot of fun and helped scratch the itch for variety. In a strange way it also brought me closer to my LTR but more importantly kept the attraction strong.

I’ve working on at least for now, mutual exclusivity, no other women. I’ve found without the variety, or at least the illusion of variety, I’m getting a little bored in the bedroom. I usually prefer things on the more dominant/rough side on the spectrum, including things like playful choking, spanking, light smacking, hair pulling etc. I also get a huge thrill out of making girls squirt. Sometimes when I’m having trouble getting to finish, getting my girl soaking the sheets helps me pop pretty quick lol.

I’ll go over a few positions that have been my go to lately and I’d like everyone else to put some of their favorites up. My goal is to inspire each other with some “new moves”. I’ll post a few CARTOON PICS (no porn lol) of my top 3 in the comments below. During my break with my LTR I used variations of these 3 positions and had girls telling it wasn’t fair how I fucked them, or that I had cheat codes for their pussy lol.

Doggystyle - everyone should be familiar with this one but I like it for the versatility. This is also probably my girls favorite position too. I think it hits her in the right spots, gives her a little more control, and gives me more to do so I don’t get bored. I can pull her hair, pull her arms, grab her waist or neck, smack her ass etc. I’ve been playing around with angles lately too, putting her more forward, having her lean back more, also the position of her knees.

2. Captain - I started experimenting with this one in June, and it’s turning into a favorite of mine. Theres so much variation with a girls legs, easy to transition into other positions, great access for clit play, slapping/choking and playing with their mouth, but I’ve noticed girls love to watch in this position. A great technique I’ve been using lately is a pillow under their lower back, sometimes 2 pillows or one big pillow. The extreme angle helps drive deeper and makes it easy for me to keep a steady pace without getting tired.

3. Pretzel - I’ve seen this called a couple different things, but I also started using this one recently. This one hits DEEP and you gotta be careful or it’s gonna be uncomfortable for your girl. I’ve found more short/shallow swings are better than trying to blast her pussy through the bed. Clit play is hard for me in this position, but the arm pulling and slapping is intense. I’ve also tried swinging the upper leg around, sometimes around my waist or over my shoulder. I also like how of you get a little tired or want some closer intimacy, having the leg to hold onto/bear hug definitely helps. I e also tried playing around with both sides and putting a pillow under their hips for better angles.

Looking forward to hearing everyone’s tricks, tips and chopping it up In the comments

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