I’m planning our next course, and I want YOUR input! Which of these sparks the most fire for you? 1️⃣ Unapologetically Worthy AF – A 60-day journaling journey to ignite self-love and God-fueled purpose. 🖊️ 2️⃣ 5 Steps to IN-Sight – Transform how you see yourself and your story through guided spiritual insight. 👁️ 3️⃣ Five Biblical Misinterpretations Every Woman Needs to Know – Break free from common misconceptions and embrace your God-given identity. ✨ Comment with your choice below! Your voice matters here, so let’s create something powerful together! 🔥💬 #HolyHotHead #BeBold”

During my years as a preacher’s wife, I mastered the CHURCH SMILE. You know the one where you can turn from quietly growling at a child and suddenly, “Oh heeeeeeey, sis! I’m so happy to see you! How is your mom? I’ve been praying for her.” I know you have done it. Most of you, I’ve witnessed you do it. 😆😆😆 But WHY do we do it? Because in a lot of settings, it is not SAFE to FEEL. We can’t say, “I’m blazing PISSED and I don’t any to smile.” Because as absurd as it is, most people don’t think HONEST EMOTION is godly unless it is all roses and sunshine. But is that true? Do you feel separated from God when you are justifiably angry? If I can share anything of value, I hope you hear my voice as you read this: God gets angry. So God is not bothered when you are angry. In fact, God can even handle when you are angry at Him. Life is hard and sometimes it takes us farther than we feel capable of going. Horrible things happen. And it is infuriating when you KNOW God and trust His ability to change the circumstances. God is not mad at us for being angry. And God is not insecure. So, much like my mini-hothead daughter’s tantrums don’t stress me, mine don’t make God push me away either. God came especially close when I was in a fury and blamed God for the devastation in my marriage. And I felt safer than ever, even in my rage. “Be angry and sin not” But just know that it is not a threat. It’s wisdom. Definitely a good advice. But it doesn’t mean that God can’t handle it. So let’s change this. Instead of putting on the fake smile next time, just be honest. Tell HOW YOU REALLY FEEL. 💛🫂

I was a member of the churches of Christ for 18 years. I was very different when I started than who I became in that system. The outgoing, confident girl who went there to find community in college didn’t know that all of the parts of her that made HER smile would be the things she would be expected to let go of in order to be a GODLY WOMAN. I learned that the Me who asked a lot of questions was perceived as a threat and insubordinate to certain male leaders. I learned that the artist ME would be considered a “waste of time” since my real priorities were memorizing scripture in prep for Bible battles with unbelievers and eventually having babies. I learned that LEADER-ME was offensive to God because women are allowed to do THAT! I didn’t understand why but they had scripture so I accepted it. I didn’t know any better. I trusted them. But when my marriage was crumbling from my husband’s deception around his addiction to pornography, I didn’t have a space to feel safe and be REAL about what I was feeling. Until I found my Babywearing community. Turns out moms with Babywearing-size babies are really just looking for community. We had a FB Group that was booming between 1 and 4 am while we were up nursing our babies! And I could vent there without judgment. They became my safe space. So as you look around your life, where are those spaces for you?? My hope is that this group will be one. Because here, you don’t have to be anything other than what you are in this moment. 💛

As a company rooted in self-love and self-awareness, we commit to an abundance of self-care during November and December. We will be on hiatus from taking new clients and starting new programs until January as we reevaluate our goals for 2025. So I will also be archiving this group as well. I appreciate you all for joining. The #HolyHotHead Podcast will continue so feel free to join me there. https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-holyhothead-podcast/id1772742114 Happy Holidays! 👋🏾 Feel free to send me a DM if you have any questions.

Hey #HolyHotHead Fam! Today’s WorthyAF Coaching Recording! https://www.youtube.com/live/bti3UT-fSXo?si=Lx6kRswUB77Ujh6K My first YouTube LIVE!! 😁 #H3wins—Being BOLD is scary but we do brave things, right?!