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Two days ago I went to this park cuz I was sick and tired of being home lonely. I spot this guy on a bench and go up to him and say " brother do you mind if I sit here ? " Being polite and respectful, turns out he's a super chill dude and we spoke for an hour about life and our struggles. So we get up and part our ways away and I walk in to this coffee shop. I stand in the line to order and the girl in front of me, her card gets declined, the barista comes round to her and checks what's wrong and tries to help her out. In the meantime I buy my latte and start sipping it walking around the shop instead of sitting, looking around the quotes and paintings. I walk around the exit and see the girl go " it's fine I'll go home " and starts walking towards the exit. That's when I was stood there and say " if you want I can buy you a coffee, you don't sound like you're from here, I'll help you ". And I was right, she wasn't from around here. Buy her the coffee and we talked for an hour and a half before we leave the coffee shop. Cute girl, bubbly personality, baby face, blonde, smily AF and a big time yapper. Oh and she's 23 and she said I looked 24 but I'm 20 lol. Maybe cuz I was dressed well. If you ask her about me she would give you a long description of a character which does not exist lmfao she thinks I'm a businessman boxer and player who travels around the world all the time who had a hard and interesting past life !!! As we leave I say " every girl I bring here always asking me to buy carrot cakes and pastries and shit, you made me spend the least money here with a girl", Which is big fat lie this is my second time with a girl in a coffee shop. " I only bought you coffee because I wanted to leave a good impression of this city and it's people because it is a nice city with nice people ". Our whole conversation was about cities and travelling and experiences so it was relevant. I walked her back to her street, shook hands and wished each other farewell and a nice life. Didn't ask for her IG or number just walked away.

- Goal: I want to have a confident body language and feel authentic with it. - Problem: Unfortunately, applying Kris' advice for body language feels inauthentic to me. I feel like i am creating a false persona and that overtime has reduced my confidence. Although i will say it works, i do feel people respecting me more, giving me more space. But, somewhere i cant stop feeling that i am a weirdo. - Solution: I am considering just forgetting about body language for a few months. I imagine that this way my old relaxed body language will return slightly and my new broad, rigid body language will tone down a little. I believe they will meet in the middle and form something authentic. - What do you think i should do?

Body language Is absolutely good think to have but I have been having a problem I have been thinking a lot of what othere will think for eg I lean forward ,have hands in my pocket and sitting on edge on a chair I think I used to not care about people and sit fully relaxed but nowdays I always do care wht other will think of it cause of body language Is it a good thing if not why should I do?

Hello, I'm Wiktor. I'm 16 years old. I live in Hull, UK and my current goal is to increase my income. A few things I want to get from this community: 1.  Knowledge 2.  Advice 3.  Discussion My biggest struggles are: 1.  Finding my direction/purpose in business. 2. Taking action - I overthink instead of just starting. Things I have achieved that I'm proud of: - My physique - The gym is honestly the best things I have started in my life. In my opinion, I have a very good physique for 16 years old. Now going to the gym is the bare minimum in my life. I like the respect that having a good physique brings. - Consistent learning - I read with the intent to learn. It has developed my ability to think critically. - Carnivore Diet - I have been around 90% consistent on carnivore diet for about 3 months until recently (slipped up a little but back on it).