I’ve been in the self industry audience for a few years now. I was able to start working on my mindset, got a full time job in tech, started learning sales over the weekend, got to 1yr of working out. However I feel like there’s so much that I need to be doing to maximize my potential, the time window feels so short since I want to get married by around 30-32yo. I have been looking for an all encompassing guide for actions I can take to maximize that. 🌟🌟Let me know in the comments of others in this community also feel a similar anxiety and any resources that helped y’all along the way, so that others can benefit from them🌟🌟

What’s your favourite video done by Kris? Mine is probably the first video of’ The other side of male life’.

Hey, I’m Mayank Chhetry I live in Ranchi and my goal is to be multidimensional jacked I want to get these 3 things from this community: 1. Proper guidance in self improvement 2. Understanding Women 3. Making me ready for the real world My biggest struggles are: 1. Instant Gratification 2. Focus 3. Discipline

The more you’re that guy she feels is just a little bit “too good” for her, the more she’ll respect you. Attraction isn’t about handing over your worth on a silver platter; it’s about making her work to feel she deserves you. Women get bored when they think they’ve “got you”—so keep a bit of mystery, a bit of distance, and stay just a notch out of her league. She needs that edge to keep chasing. 1. Don’t Show Your Cards Right Away Overeager guys crash and burn. Women don’t want a man they can immediately predict or control. Give her just enough to stay interested but keep a good chunk of yourself off the table. Let her earn her place. Your time, your approval—these aren’t things she gets without effort. If she’s uncertain, you stay on her mind longer. 2. Body Language That Speaks Confidence Stop fidgeting for her approval. Men who signal they’re the prize move with calm authority, not desperation. Don’t overdo the eye contact, touch, or compliments—let her come to you. Make her feel like she’s got competition, even if it’s in her head. Don’t give her a free pass to be the center of your world. 3. Keep Your Standards High—Make Her Work for It Women value what they earn, and the same goes for attention and approval. If you’re too easily impressed, you drop your value. She’ll chase when she feels you’re a high-standard man who isn’t won over by just anyone. Stay discerning, and she’ll feel the need to step up. 4. Drop the Routine, Drop the Predictability Predictability is poison. Switch it up, leave some gaps. If you’re always texting, calling, or free every weekend, you’ve made her the sun of your universe. Let her wonder. Make her reach out, let her experience your absence. When she can’t be certain, she’ll value the times you are there. 5. Treat Her Well, But Don’t Bow Down There’s a difference between being kind and being soft. Set boundaries. Don’t be afraid to say “no.” Women respect men who respect themselves more than anyone else. Give her kindness, but keep self-respect at the forefront.