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The Benefits of Environment
As I prepare to make a move back to London I’ve been speaking with 2 very successful guys regarding the importance of environment. A personal friend of mine and a member of 1MInternational, we were having a discussion about our new apartments in London. We both agreed the cost was ridiculous and London is extremely expensive. However… We also both agreed that it would be worth every penny. Why? Because of 1 single factor that seems to appear time and time again in success stories. That is: Environment! I have worked in shitholes and I have worked in all singing all dancing every facility required places and I work about 50% harder in the nice places. My friend said the same thing and described how a friend reached £300k per month when he moved to an expensive house in Fulham. I remember a guy on social media worth £100m who claimed he got rich after leasing a Ferrari because it changed his mindset and enabled him to land massive deals in property from simply turning up and looking the part. Am I telling you guys to go and spend millions you don’t currently have? Of course not. But it’s food for thought on your current situation. Are you demotivated/lost or are you simply surrounded by negativity and living in an environment that’s holding you back facilities wise? My other friend who lives in London and drives a Ferrari California, swears that spending £8k per month on his lifestyle earns him £50k per month. He said to me, without the apartment, office, car and clothes no one would do business with him. He recently landed a massive deal because another Ferrari owner got speaking with him over the colour of his Ferrari. One thing led to another and now he has an Apple deal for AI with housing. An old boss of mine - worth £8m once said “everything's perception Kris, everyone looks like the real deal online” as disingenuous as this has become in the modern era, I can vouch for this. I have had money for 4 years now, I’ve never really flaunted it and always reinvested into my company.
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Getting Looks From Women Means Nothing
Little half-blog for you guys. In this modern era of social snippets you’ve likely seen guys being “secretly filmed” as they walk down the road and have women look at them. This whole narrative is such a waste of time. Women worth anything aren’t basing their attraction off looks. They’re basing it off masculinity, character, ability to provide. “So why are these women looking at the men”? Because people like to look at attractive people! The amount of women I’ve dated who genuinely couldn’t care about looks, usually the hottest women too. They’ll all say the same thing, I look at a handsome guy and think he’s handsome, then I move on with my day and forget about him. How sad is this when you really think about it. You have all of these guys perceiving a look from a woman as some sort of accomplishment, when in reality she’s forgotten about him and will openly admit she looked more out of curiosity/or as part of an intrigue for beauty. Sorry to break it to you, but all women do the same to women. It’s nothing special. I’ve seen women check women out and then say I have a girl crush I love her outfit. Men are out here overthinking and overhyping “someone looking at them”. Nothing was accomplished, she’s simply looked, walked past and disappeared. Did you sleep with her, did she become your GF or Wife? If no then nothing matters. This “how many girls can look at me” game and collecting phone numbers is the biggest waste of time and feminine. The important part for men is being a man, having a life pre-built that women want to be a part of and displaying that value. This gets actual results. There’s a big difference between He’s handsome and I want to sleep with him Men are operating like women in this era. They’re getting called beautiful and calling it a good day. Men are action based, you want results. Drop the vanity metrics and focus on the game after the game, 200 looks, 100 “he’s hot” and 20 numbers still means nothing until you know what to do and how to build genuine attraction. Being attractive is about 5% of the game from my experience
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10 Books That Changed My Life
Secrets of the Millionaire Mind - T Harv Eker - This book will help you with the mindset required to make money. Most people become clones of their parents, this book will help you to evolve beyond that Disrupt You - Jay Samit - Disrupt you displays how the biggest companies in the world don’t invest giant funds into owning, instead they leverage, a real eye opener The One Thing - Gary Keller - Everyones busy, but how many people are being effective with their tasklists Purple Cow - Seth Godin - Seth Godin shows you how to standout in the very loud world of marketing Flow - Mihaly Csikszentmihalyi - Finding the balance between challenge and skill will elevate your workflow to a level you’ve never seen before Influence: The Psychology of Persuasion by Robert Cialdini - We buy from and sell to humans. Therefore we need to understand people and how they think Think & Grow Rich Napoleon Hill - The self-improvement GOAT book. Covering multiple topics that I used to grow my own YouTube channel How To Get Rich Felix Dennis - The most important book in my life. Felix Dennis shows you the truth about making money and how to navigate the less spoken about issues you’ll face along your journey The Power Of Habit - Charles Duhigg - I used this book to become disciplined and build the habits that made me who I am today Inside The Tornado - Geoffrey A Moore - When things go wrong or look risky 99% of people back off. Inside the Tornado explains how the biggest and best built their successes during times of uncertainty by pushing forward Kris
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Masculinity Series Coming Soon
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