I attended a talk with James Clear, author of Atomic Habits. He shared that every morning, he asks himself, What do I want?โnot what others want for him, but what he truly wants. This insight resonated deeply with me, and I wanted to pass it along to you. ๐ก We often live our lives trying to meet the expectations of other f*ckersโfamily, friends, society. ๐ค But how often do we stop and ask ourselves, What do I actually f*cking want for my own life? ๐ค Itโs easy to get caught up in what others think is best for us, but the truth is, if we constantly live by someone elseโs standards, we lose touch with our own desires, passions, and goals. ๐ฑ Now, donโt get me wrong, f*ck faceโif you have kids or other responsibilities, of course, they need to be taken care of. ๐ถ But even with those responsibilities, itโs still important to ask yourself: What the f*ck do I want? ๐ง Itโs okay to be selfish, and in fact, sometimes, itโs necessary. Prioritizing what you want isnโt about being inconsiderateโitโs about owning your life and your choices. ๐ฅ If youโre always living for someone else, youโll never get to experience the fullness of your own potential. ๐ Being selfish doesnโt mean disregarding others, but rather, itโs about setting boundaries and ensuring that your own needs and dreams donโt get buried under the weight of other peopleโs expectations. ๐ When you get clear on what you want, and give yourself permission to pursue it, thatโs when true growth and fulfillment happen. ๐ช So, what do you want? What makes you feel alive? Start there, and donโt apologize for putting yourself first. ๐ฏ Drop in the comments what the f*ck you want today! โฌ๏ธ