Hey guys! I'm Dieter, a software engineer in my early 30's, residing in New York City (feel free to reach out if you're in the area and want to connect). I have a lot of nice-guy tendencies I'm working on undoing in my life right now. And a major social anxiety struggle I'm also working on in my life is interacting with strangers in public (and feeling like I'm "bothering" people), especially attractive women (nothing brings out my nice-guy tendencies like hot girls lol).