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Sep 28 in
{ASK} : How Bad Do You Want It?
With the group continuing to grow, now at over 419 members, I’m as surprised as ever how many guys don’t actively participate in their own rescue. I see maybe 20 guys who are only semi active on the boards/zoom calls. That’s less that 5%, pretty pathetic… Your inner work isn’t going improve itself and I want to challenge everyone to DO BETTER. Too many guys only “show up” when there’s a crisis, and only marginally improve. Share your struggles, share what you’re working on, share the losses too. A rising tide lifts all ships, we can all elevate together. Huge shout out to @Austin Wright for putting in the work and allowing himself to be vulnerable enough to get feedback from the group.
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1 like • Sep 29
It's not the customer, it's the product. Most of the stuff on this site is really good, invaluable info, but not really relevant to getting a girl to say yes to a date. I'd wager that those 5% are in LTR's. 50% of the posts are guys asking about some part of a LTR. The other 49% are about abstracts. The 1%, just 9 posts, are field reports. Don't get me wrong, LTR's are way more complex than the black and white, "Are you interested in going on a date with me?" I've jumped in on a free mastermind zoom and Paul was talking about how to fuck a girl really well, high level stuff. It would be the same as teaching me how to use the nav computer on a 747, good info, but I don't know how to fly an airplane. Until I have more experience with women and become skillful enough to get a "yes", then most of this site is, not off limits, but less accessible. Me thinks, the 400 inactive dudes would agree.
1 like • Sep 29
Rohith B That is called depression. Something I've battled with my whole life. Not until recently I found a solution and its very simple, but not easy. Do the thing you know you should be doing and the depression will lift away. Just this week I was feeling despondent and hopeless as well. I asked my self why and searched my feelings for the root. Oh!, you know what I didn't do yesterday, my aviation studies or my language studies. Two things things I told myself I would do every day. In effect I had lied to myself. I know this seems trivial, but I cannot stress how important it is to do the thing you know you should be doing, even for just 5 mins. You can at least tell yourself that you did it. Don't lie to yourself. This is the very root of depression. I told you it wouldn't be easy, but trust me it will work. The only catch is it takes daily maintenance, one slip and that black cloud or glass slope will come right back.
Sep 14 in
Triumph boys!
I was finally able to overcome my fear and I made a cold approach, just minutes ago. I'm so excited that I was able to do it and I wanted to tell some people who actually cared. Big deal, your thinking...I haven't made an approach in at least 5 years and have been really struggling with paralyzing dread, not fear or nervousness, actual dread. As if you just told me I'm being deployed to fight Russians on the Kursk battlefront. So, hurray for me!, it's vag as far as the eye can see from here on out. Be good.
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New comment 15h ago
0 likes • Sep 15
@John Rogalsky. Will you expand on approaching without the intent to get her number? If I'm just there to talk then I'm no different that her GF, I must be missing something. Thanks.
1 like • Sep 15
@Jeremy Roe What helped me was I hadn't jerked-off or looked at porn for 2 weeks and I had just worked out, me and her were leaving the gym at the same time. I've noticed I'm more confident and carefree after a workout. I hope this helps.
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