Homework powerful update after yesterday's great coaching ;-)
You're wrong! Do you really think that this new challenge, that lucrative contract you just signed, that new building you just added to your portfolio will bring you joy and fulfilment ? You keep running without stopping, a glutton for activity, challenges, and victories! You constantly push yourself to perform. You are brilliant and admired by many, you have the gift of helping and loving people, you are generous and kind, and yet, you constantly seek to prove your worth. Barely enough time to close this project, to finish this coaching, to win this tournament, to finish your show under the applause of the audience, and you're already looking for the next challenge... You cherish this feeling of success so much, that failure has become your tormentor! This success is like a drug for you,
a powerful hit of heroin that soothes you. Those successes are wonderful, but so fleeting aren’t they…? The truth is that No finish line or match point; No big profit in crypto, No pair of Louboutins, No model by your side, will fill this void. They act like painkillers. When you find yourself alone,
away from those who admire you, stripped of your artifacts, you feel alone and miserable. I understand you so well, I’ve been there. Don't you think that in this endless quest you are seeking approval? Stop for a moment. BREATHE for a minute. Do you feel that deep inside you there are so many treasures waiting to emerge ? Maybe this is your greatest challenge! Dare to slow down, dare to embrace silence, allow yourself to see what this addiction to performance is hiding. Maybe you grew up with a parent who lived through you, and to make them proud, you became this champion. Maybe you suffered from an inferiority complex when you were young and swore that from then on, you would always be among the best. Maybe you didn't get the attention you desired, and this is the strategy you developed to feel loved. No matter what, let me tell you one thing, All that is in the past.