Hot take: casual sex is overrated 😬

The next few minutes are about to piss some people off.

I went through a breakup recently and it got me reflecting on the current world of dating a lot so I realized something that I would like to share with y’all...

Not only is the actual experience of casual sex kind of overrated, but it’s also too much of a waste of time, attention, and energy for what you get in return.

In other words, it’s a very low-leverage pursuit and the ROI is poor!

Here’s where my controversial take comes in:

If you really really still want to have casual sex, then I would much rather spend my time building something that will give me money, fulfillment AND act as a magnet for women… like a massive personal brand!

Let’s take Drake as an extreme example. A random guy who would still look exactly like him, with the same character traits and confidence, would still have to put in some work to seduce women. But now with the brand he’s built around him, he literally has thousands of hot women in every major city of the world who would gladly sleep with him for free if he just sent them one dm.

You don’t have to be Drake, you can just build something that would attract women to you instead of chasing them. That’s if we’re talking about casual sex.

In the meantime, I believe the most optimal way to use your sexual energy is to turn it into creative power. It can be an incredible driving force that gives you the courage, energy, and creativity to improve all of the major areas of your life. You can build a business, get in shape, and focus on building a beautiful relationship that would bring a very special fulfillment in your life (and much more sex that will be 10x better anyway!)

I’m curious, what do you think?

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