𝗧𝗼 𝗘𝘃𝗲𝗿𝘆𝗼𝗻𝗲 𝗛𝗲𝗿𝗲 𝗨𝗻𝗱𝗲𝗿 𝟯𝟬, 𝑹𝑬𝑨𝑫 𝑻𝑯𝑰𝑺

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𝐁𝐋𝐎𝐆 𝐏𝐎𝐒𝐓 𝐈𝐍𝐒𝐏𝐈𝐑𝐄𝐃 𝐁𝐘 𝐓𝐇𝐈𝐒 𝐔𝐍𝐃𝐄𝐑𝐑𝐀𝐓𝐄𝐃 𝐕𝐈𝐃𝐄𝐎: https://youtu.be/x8WWWAq3ctQ

The “male advantage” is rooted in Kris’s observation of how men and women’s attractiveness and desirability evolve differently with age. Drawing from a mix of cultural observations and studies, Kris notes that while women tend to reach peak attractiveness in their early twenties, men experience a later peak, often around age 36. According to Kris, this later prime age means men have the unique advantage of time; they’re able to build value, stability, and appeal gradually over decades, allowing for a kind of personal “investment” that continues to grow.

𝐊𝐫𝐢𝐬’ 𝐌𝐞𝐬𝐬𝐚𝐠𝐞 𝐭𝐨 𝐘𝐨𝐮𝐧𝐠 𝐌𝐞𝐧

In his video, Kris emphasizes the importance of patience and growth, especially for men in their teens and twenties who may feel overlooked. Instead of chasing quick validation or focusing solely on impressing others, Kris suggests focusing on building valuable skills, investing in physical health, and developing mental resilience. Kris himself has shared how this approach has transformed his own life, reminding viewers that reaching peak potential takes time, but it’s worth the investment.

Kris’s central message is clear: instead of feeling pressured by societal expectations or the allure of immediate validation, young men should invest their energy in self-development. This deliberate approach will yield long-term rewards, especially as they approach their 30s and 40s, when life experience, financial stability, and confidence make them highly desirable.

𝐊𝐫𝐢𝐬’𝐬 𝐊𝐞𝐲 𝐒𝐭𝐞𝐩𝐬 𝐟𝐨𝐫 𝐒𝐮𝐜𝐜𝐞𝐬𝐬

𝟏. 𝐂𝐨𝐦𝐦𝐢𝐭 𝐭𝐨 𝐂𝐚𝐫𝐞𝐞𝐫 𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐅𝐢𝐧𝐚𝐧𝐜𝐢𝐚𝐥 𝐆𝐫𝐨𝐰𝐭𝐡

As Kris often says, financial stability is key to a man’s long-term success and attractiveness. Instead of rushing for instant results, Kris advises that men should prioritize building a sustainable career, honing valuable skills, and developing long-term financial habits. This will provide a strong foundation for a fulfilling future.

𝟐. 𝐄𝐦𝐛𝐫𝐚𝐜𝐞 𝐏𝐡𝐲𝐬𝐢𝐜𝐚𝐥 𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐌𝐞𝐧𝐭𝐚𝐥 𝐇𝐞𝐚𝐥𝐭𝐡

Kris emphasizes the importance of fitness and mental health, seeing them as pillars of the male advantage. For men in their twenties, this means adopting a regular exercise routine, focusing on good nutrition, and staying mentally sharp through meditation, reading, or learning new skills.

𝟑. 𝐁𝐮𝐢𝐥𝐝 𝐚 𝐒𝐭𝐫𝐨𝐧𝐠 𝐒𝐨𝐜𝐢𝐚𝐥 𝐂𝐢𝐫𝐜𝐥𝐞

Building a network of supportive friends and mentors is essential for long-term success, and Kris often highlights this as a key to maturity. By surrounding themselves with positive influences, men can enhance their confidence, expand their opportunities, and reinforce their drive for success.

𝟒. 𝐏𝐫𝐢𝐨𝐫𝐢𝐭𝐢𝐳𝐞 𝐒𝐞𝐥𝐟-𝐈𝐦𝐩𝐫𝐨𝐯𝐞𝐦𝐞𝐧𝐭

Kris is a strong advocate for lifelong learning. Whether through reading, picking up new hobbies, or practicing skills that build resilience, continuous self-improvement prepares men for the peak years ahead.

By understanding and embracing the male advantage, men can set realistic expectations and focus on gradual, meaningful progress. Kris’s message resonates strongly: as men focus on self-improvement, they gain an ever-increasing level of value, maturity, and wisdom that peaks well into their 30s and 40s. For men willing to invest in themselves and exercise patience, the payoff is substantial.

In Kris’s words, don’t rush the process—embrace it. Use these years to build the foundation for a successful, fulfilling future. Following Kris’s model of the male advantage can lead to a life of depth, purpose, and strength, making men who practice this concept truly stand out when they reach their prime.

ps.

Which step are you struggling with the most?

I struggle with career/business growth

My mental/physical health is lacking

I have a weak social circle

I don’t care enough about self improvement

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