Getting my female friend to introduce me to other ladys
If I'm at a party with a female friend (or a few) and I see a girl no one of us knows,
do I still ask my female friend/s to initiate the introduction?
If so, how? And what do they say?
And if not... Cold approach elegantly and take IG?
Please give some clarity on that :)
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• Mar '23 (edited)
Treat them the same as if they were a dude you wanted to talk to. Would you send a female friend over to talk to another guy that you wanted to be friends with? Odds are you would probably just walk over, fist bump, and go "What's up bro?"
Take charge and lead the situation. If none of your friends group knows this person, introduce them to your friend group. Strike up a conversation asking how they are associated with the event/place/person hosting, etc... Then just treat them like a regular person. Make them feel special by getting them to talk about themselves as you get to know them and have them "qualify" to you.
Keep the conversation/length acceptable given the event/environment, trade IG handles, and send them on their way and repeat with other people you want to meet.
Follow up the next morning/ day about how it was nice to meet them as you would anyone else, then keep them in the loop as you see fit depending on your social circle and networking goals.
You got this!
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• Mar '23
got it thank you! :)
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• Apr '23
Fair point. but doesn't it usually work better when a woman introduces you? Women can have their guard up if you approach - they think you're hitting on them
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• Mar '23
Hey Beautiful, thanks for joining us today. I'm Raymond, what brings you here today?
Break in rapport
  • You the type to take all the tequila bottles for herself
  • Want to break up with your bf?
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• Apr '23
ultimate rizz
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• Apr '23
Thank you bro
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• May '23
Ask your female friend to make a bet on what the girl and her friends do and then go up to them and ask them what they do for a living because you and your friend have a thing for making bets on what people do.
Make ridiculous guesses so you can act bummed you lost the bet and as you walk away (don't tell them your ridiculous guesses). Then invite them to hang with you and your friend to tell your friend what they do.
Great conversation starter and if you can engage the group of girls she is with you will show social competence plus if her friends like you she will like you. If you need then use your friend to keep the conversation flowing after you make first contact.
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• May '23
amazing thanks! :)
I also use bets on where they know each other from
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