There will be a day when guys have robot / AI partners who are programmed to sometimes reject their advances and cause arguments... since having an AI girlfriend who is always compliant is not exactly exciting. Chris Williamson alluded to AI OnlyFans "content creators" over a year ago, stipulating that "AI will soon be able to generate hotter than reality women, and ChatGPT will soon be able to do dirty talk better and more attentively than real girls, should we be worried?" Last week, on Instagram Reels, there appeared an AI generated "model", who had an OF account, to my horror, this OF account had 125,000 subscribers to its account. I am someone who believes the access of explicit content does absolutely no good at all for anybody involved in the interaction, whether it be the producer, provider nor consumer. However, the degeneration of this content to the point where real guys are paying real money to see and interact with an AI generated model scares me. It scares me because how disaffected and despondent and lost must you be to fall to this level? How many more boys and men will stop interacting in the dating market and choose to live in these virtual, pseudo-relationships? It almost goes without saying, real life relationships should be prioritised, and guys should not be removing themselves from the gene pool because they feel incapable of forming meaningful relationships with others. My first instinct is to say this should be legislated against and banned - that's how strongly I am against this degeneration. However, I have seen arguments online taking the position, 'what is wrong with this? It's their lives, and so it should be perfectly legal how they enjoy themselves so long as nobody is being harmed.' I query whether these consumers really are enjoying themselves and certainly contend that they're not being harmed. I think we cannot begin to understand the damage this would cause to the users, and to society in the long run. I think this will never be banned, nor even really restricted, and it is coming. The mission now is to really push the importance of two things: First the very real value of REAL relationships, since guys should be aspiring for "marrying a good woman, having children with that good woman, building a family with that good woman, being part of a community with that good woman and your children and building the institutions of society that actually make society flourish and function." Second to push that they are more than capable of achieving the first aim, and to provide them with a decision-making matrix and an education as to how exactly to pull it off.

If you have read the first of these submissions you may be aware that I am working on a journal of lessons I have learned, and the first chapter is dedicated to the key lessons I learned from the people in my family. For example, here is what I wrote for my late grandfather: "Grandad showed me that loving your family is the most important thing a man can do. He taught me the importance of Peace, and of God. Unfortunately, as the person I lost first, he also taught me the necessity of giving your loved ones their flowers whilst they are still with you. The man with a Powerful Spirit." This week my uncle, and sister's Godfather, passed away after a short-lived battle with terminal cancer. He was a good man, who weathered incredibly difficult times. When asked how he's doing, his response was always something along the lines of "I'll be alright." Without delving into the inner workings of my family, I can outline that my uncle's life was difficult. He and my aunt didn't have children and eventually they went separate ways after over 30 years of marriage. It was this event that highlighted to me how difficult life is for a man and this hardship is no excuse for losing your standards and being anything less than a gentleman. When the separation happened, my aunt moved back in with her sister and parents. She was welcomed and supported. My uncle was alone, his parents had passed and he was hundreds of miles away from his childhood hometown and siblings because he had left almost three decades prior to pursue a life with his childhood sweetheart, moving close to my aunt and her family. Post separation, he was alone, his only support financially, emotionally, and mentally was himself. Despite this, my uncle went to work day in, day out. He supported the least fortunate members of society by supplying wheelchairs to them day in, day out. Not only did he carry on contributing to society, and supporting his own livelihood. He also made an effort with my aunt, continuing to pay for her phone bills and the maintenance of her car. He was under no obligations to do this, aside from being bound by those very real obligations which come with unconditional love and selfless attempts to be a gentleman.