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This is Water by David Foster Wallace – The Water We Choose to Swim in!
“The most important realities are often the ones that are hardest to see and talk about.” In the speech - which would later become known as "This Is Water" - Wallace introduces his argument by using a parable about two young fish swimming along. An older fish passes by and asks, “How’s the water?” The young fish swim on for a bit, and then one turns to the other and asks, “What the hell is water?” Arrogance This anecdote serves as a metaphor for our blindness to the most fundamental aspects of our lives. Wallace explains that we are often oblivious to the mental and emotional "water" we swim in—our default settings that dictate how we interpret and react to the world. One of the most treacherous aspects of this default setting is arrogance. Wallace shares a story of an atheist and a religious man discussing the former’s near-death experience. Both view the event through their own lenses, each arriving at vastly different conclusions. Wallace’s point here is that “blind certainty” can imprison us without our knowledge. When we become trapped by our arrogance, we are incapable of seeing the world from other perspectives. Reject Your Default Setting Wallace then expands on the concept of the “default setting,” which he defines as the unconscious belief that we are the center of the universe. This egocentric perspective can turn mundane experiences—like navigating traffic or standing in line at the grocery store—into sources of frustration and misery. The power of rejecting our default setting lies in choosing to see these everyday annoyances differently. When we choose to recognise the humanity in others, when we choose to see a crowded store not as a hassle but as an opportunity to practice patience and empathy, our experience shifts dramatically. This is not about suppressing negative feelings but about acknowledging them and choosing a more intentional response. Find True Freedom The final lesson Wallace offers is perhaps the most profound: true freedom comes from mastering the power of attention and awareness.
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Ahad's Blog: Is this world good? (3 mins)
"Do you think this world is good?" As I was winding down for bed last night, I received the above text message from my good friend and I thought to myself, 'That's a pretty vague question.' Here's the response I sent: "I would ask for a definition of 'this world' and 'good' but I’ll give it a go anyway. I think the average person walking by you on the street is nice and pleasant and kind and helpful if they can be. I think that people generally lean selfish in a way that makes total sense, but averages out to many decisions going for the guy in power and against the little guy, until you end up like we are today. I think that the world is the world. I can’t apply good or bad to the ecosystems and wildlife. I saw a butterfly land on a flower earlier and that was nice, but on Tuesday I saw a grey squirrel pounce from a branch and slash a pigeon minding it’s own business scattering feathers into the wind - which happened to be blowing in my direction - and that was less nice. I think that the universe is massive, we’ll amount to very little 'in the grand scheme of things' but I think that’s not our job. I think we’re supposed to do our best and live a good life by whatever standards we deem, and some people agree to the standards I hold and some people don’t and that’s OK - and important to remember. I think good and bad are awkward words to describe anything, because the full context of a thing or a person or an event is often obscured before the judgement making process, and after the initial judgment is made the mind hardens to that 'fact'. You can't teach a man that which he thinks he already knows. I think I’m good, until I’m bad by accident and sometimes, even worse, on purpose. I think you’re good, because I don’t know what capacity you have to be bad. I think a stranger walking up to me is bad because I don’t know the capacity they have to be good. I think good can be done by bad people, and bad done by good. I think it’s nuanced in a way that is not satisfying but very human.
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A Simple Life (3 mins)
A submission about a simple life should be simple, here are a series of quotes from Seneca, who will illustrate the point for us: “A man who examines the saddle and bridle and not the animal itself when he is out to buy a horse is a fool; similarly only an absolute fool values a man according to his clothes, or according to his social position, which is only something we wear like clothes”- Seneca (Letter XLVII) “It is a great man that can treat his earthenware as if it were silver, and a man who treats his silver as if it were earthenware is no less great” - seneca (Letter V) “Philosophy calls for simple living, not for doing penance, and the simple way of life need not be a crude one” - Seneca (Letter V) In my opinion, living a simple life is the easiest way to achieve happiness. Presence and gratitude are key pillars to live this way. Part of living a simple life is to take care of what is truly yours: Your mind, and your body. Living simply does not mean to vegetate, to be unkempt, to devoid yourself of responsibility. Your responsibilities are what make your simple life meaningful. Every step you take should be fulfilling a responsibility, and thus, every step is responsible for your simple life. Every step is responsible for your meaning because every step is essential and therefore meaningful. Take pride in your mental health, your physical health, your hygiene, your cleanliness, your appearance, your home. “Anyone entering our homes should admire us, and not our furnishings” (Seneca - Letter V). “Praise in him what can neither be given nor snatched away, what is peculiarly a man’s (…). It is his Spirit. Man’s ideal state is realised when he has fulfilled the purpose for which he was born. And what is that reason that demands of him? Something very easy - That he live in accordance with his own nature.”- Seneca (Letter XLI) “For those who follow nature, everything is easy and straightforward, whereas for those who fight against her life is just rowing against the stream.” - Seneca (Letter CXXII)
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Hitting Goals: Ins and Outs (3 mins)
As the year draws to a close, I’m hearing more and more goal setting and discussion of objectives to hit for the end of next year. As I reflect on my own year, I can’t even remember where I put the piece of paper I wrote my goals down on is, let alone remember the goals I had arbitrarily set myself at the start of the year. As a brief detour: I think the way you live your life day in, day out, the choices you make, and the things you accept or reject show what your goals really are. Yes, a younger me would say he wants a six-pack for summer every January, but his actions didn’t evidence that this was a goal. An outsider couldn’t have guessed a six-pack was on the agenda as I dug into my second cookie dough Ben and Jerry’s of the day. If you are going to set goals, I think an important frame to hold in your mind is that of “life is inputs and outputs.” It’s very easy to state the output that we desire, but rarely do we think about the tangible inputs that will ultimately achieve it. A goal is just an output. So what inputs need to go in to achieve it? Each hour of your day, you are inputting into something. For many of us its hours put into school or work, but what’s our desired output here? Even worse, we sink time into scrolling on reels and consuming content, these are all inputs but to what end? Perhaps you’re at peace with the time you sink into content consumption and you see it as some productive use of time to some worthwhile end, then again, probably not. Thinking ahead to what we want to achieve in the next year is perhaps a valuable endeavour. However, seeing the finish line is one thing, knowing what to train to reach it is another, and actually doing the work is the most important step of all. Most of us reverse engineer the input-output equation: We see some great goal at the end. However, I think if we adopt an input-oriented approach: What am I doing day in day out? Where does this ultimately lead me? Do I want the outcome I am presently working towards? How can I alter my day to day actions to achieve what I supposedly want?
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