This text is for the mature minds and hearts!
We should all be Millionaires
That’s the Motto for Rachel Rogers, and I am 100% on board with this!
And with "we" she means historically underrepresented individuals: And of that group I especially mean woman and women of color – who are my target of love.
Yet, when I look around, I see many brilliant women with minds full of ideas and hearts full of passion. They
have degrees, are highly skilled – yet work in a Job they don't really like, don't make the money nor the impact they could make.
Have invested 5 to 6 figures in their personal and professional development yet are still struggling to transform their knowledge into money.
Have services and businesses yet still “mainly” try to sell to NGO’s or Institutions focused on charity rather than profit.
But I rarely see real business – good old business.
Exchanging a service, in my case education, community & coaching.
We don’t all have to get a VC Fund, which is amazing but not the only way.
But we also don’t have to go and undersell our highly impactful work to more charity oriented institutions just to get by doing what we love to do.
I have a dream…
I would love to see a highly educated, trained and qualified women of color selling her services back to her audience and community and fellow women, creating a win-win- win situation for everyone involved – coach – client – community!
Yet
I see that this is the biggest fear among us – women, women of color and historically under -privileged, represented and funded people.
I see it with my clients.
I see it with my colleagues.
I see gifted women all around me
YOU don't dare to have the conversations that close deals.
Honestly, identifying if I could help you solve your problem.
Without apologizing for making my offer.
Without saying – I don’t mean to self promote my work here but…
Without secretly knowing that most of your friends and acquaintances are around because you have done all that inner work –
Energy, mindset, emotional release work.
Moving, breathing, cleansing, your spirit, your mind, your traumas, your room, your home, your friendship circle.
You have gotten your shit together
Your body, your look, your money, your website, your social media –
Yet you don't dare to sell to your fellow sister!
Which leaves you broke and her broken.
Let me share with you what I see…
Selling is serving, is what they say in my world.
Selling is solving your fellow sister's problem is what they say in my world.
Business is helping someone else for profit, is what they say in my world!
When can we start normalizing making money as honorable –
That's why it is called honorary.
I dare to say I want to sell to you my fellow sister on your holistic health journey
Spiritually, mentally, emotionally, physically and FINANCIALLY!
It is from women to women – Community service yet not for free.
Nothing in life is for free.
Because that is the root of our problems –
We don't dare value ourselves –
We don't dare value our minds, our hearts, our skills and our time.
We don't dare support ourselves by sharing with another fellow sister FOR profit.
Because what would that make us look like?
Taking advantage of someone else's problem?
Yes – that's exactly what it is –
In the most honorable, clear, and fair way – through offering a solution with a financial evaluation of the value it provides to your life.
What is the solution worth to you? Nothing?
Okay, that's why you are willing to pay - nothing.
But- that's not quite correct. Because nothing in life is for free.
What is it costing you to stay exactly where you are right now?
Without your problem being solved?
What is it costing you to keep that problem?
The experiences you could have?
The love and support you could experience?
The joy and fulfillment you could feel?
Life of freedom you could enjoy
… if only you valued it – your life, your desires, your dreams, your longings.
… if only you dared to value your mind, your heart, your skills, your time.
Or have you already slowly, secretly, unnoticeably sunken so deep into a place of despair that you
No longer believe…
…believe that a beautiful life is possible for you?
Maybe you have stopped dreaming?
Maybe you have lost hope for the sunshine?
Maybe you have forgotten what you really love?
You have probably given up striving for experiencing the beauty of life.
And here comes the second-biggest problem
You don‘t trust me.
Because we have also learned not only to not value ourself but also to not trust ourselves –
Let alone trust another woman.
Which you shouldn't.
Because all the wickedness and predatory behavior you have encountered along the road of life. Made you cautious.
Family hurting you?
Friends lying to you?
Lover's exploiting you?
People trying to sell you?
I understand….
But what does she have to do for you to trust her?
Show that she is a woman too?
A woman with a heart that got broken too?
A woman who has overcome her own trials and tribulations.
Most of all her own insecurities and fears.
A woman who is marked by the wounds that cut deep on the journey to freedom.
What do you need to trust a fellow woman?
A fellow woman wanting to help you solve your solution FOR Profit! Because she too had to pay the price for her libaration.
Because she now knows the value of her life, her mind, her heart, her skills her time.
Because she knows that she deserves honor!
Because she has paid with her life to now be in a position to help a fellow woman.
She deserves the honorary – the money.
So fellow woman wanting to create the life of your dreams – being free.
Freedom is not for free.
You will have to pay the price either way.
Either you pay with your life half lived or you pay with honoring another fellow women by seeing that she is capable, trustworthy and willing to help you create your own freedom.
The choice is yours!
So women with an offer, Dare to sell!
And to Hell with this destructive humility.
You are the mountain!
Still standing – authentically and radiant!
Shout it from the top!
I am Free, powerful and mighty!
I own my journey my faults, losses and mistakes
I own my divinity, my brilliance, my wins, my power!
Own your offer! Own your price!
And for the women seeking to get out of hell
Use your resources to learn from a fellow woman
Because she holds wisdom and secrets that will
Change your life forever!
Either way, you gotta pay!