Reflecting on Your Year: A Simple Guide to Self-Assessment

As a busy mom of two and a freelancer, the end of the year feels like the perfect time to hit pause and take stock. Reflection doesn’t have to be fancy or time-consuming, it’s just a chance to look back and learn.

First, let’s talk about celebrating wins. Sometimes, we get so caught up in the hustle that we forget to acknowledge the small stuff. For me, this year’s biggest win was finding a way to balance client deadlines with family life. Some days, it felt like a juggling act, but somehow, I managed to keep everything moving forward even if that meant throwing together a quick dinner most nights. Progress is progress, even if it’s a little messy.

Then, there are the challenges. Let’s be real, things don’t always go as planned. Maybe it was a project that got delayed or the never-ending pile of laundry that just sat there mocking me. Instead of letting those moments drag me down, I tried to approach them as opportunities to learn. Asking myself, “What can I do differently next time?” helped me focus on growth rather than perfection.

Finally, looking ahead to next year, I’m setting a goal to be more intentional with my time. Multitasking has its place, but I’ve realized that prioritizing one thing at a time—whether it’s work or spending undistracted time with my kids, helps me feel more balanced and effective.

Reflection doesn’t have to be a long, drawn-out process. Grab a notebook, jot down your thoughts, and see what comes up.

What’s one win you’re most proud of this year?

Let’s celebrate the progress and keep building on it for next year.

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