As I was putting our toddler to bed…
I came back into the room where Alyssa was resting, I saw that she’d been watching the monitor, as we were both regulated and we often disagree on night time boundaries that we hold with our 3 y/o I asked how she felt about the 3 boundaries that I set with our toddler. This was a small way of me having a small “minimum standard of care” conversation with her. If you were having a similar convo, how would you want to be approached outside of your weekly meeting?