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The Easiest Ways

The easiest ways I know of in life all involve getting completely behind your authentic self.

In our quest for sobriety and personal development, we often stumble upon the idea of self-sabotage—a barrier that can seem insurmountable. Yet, what if the key to overcoming this barrier lies in embracing the authentic self? As the Tao Te Ching reminds us, “When you are content to be simply yourself and don’t compare or compete, everyone will respect you.” This invites us to reflect on the richness of our individuality and the freedom that comes from aligning with our true essence.

From a Christian perspective, the Apostle Paul encourages us in Romans 12:2 to “be transformed by the renewing of your mind.” This transformation isn't about forcing ourselves into a mold but about shedding the layers of self-doubt and external expectations that weigh us down. When we reconnect with our authentic selves, we discover that the journey toward sobriety can be infused with grace and joy.

In Buddhism, the concept of non-attachment teaches us to let go of the thoughts and habits that no longer serve us. Just as a lotus flower rises above murky waters, we too can transcend the self-sabotage that keeps us stuck. The beauty of this journey is that it invites playfulness and creativity—qualities that make it easier to navigate the challenges of life. After all, as the Buddha said, “The mind is everything. What you think you become.”

As we gather here in "Easier Ways," let’s support one another in shedding what doesn’t serve us and celebrating the vibrant, authentic selves we’re becoming. Together, we can discover that the easiest paths are often the ones where we let our true selves shine. Let’s transcend self-sabotage by sharing our journeys, uplifting each other, and having a little fun along the way!

BONUS: Why did the monk refuse Novocaine? Because he wanted to transcend dental medication. :-)

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