it's so bad i can't share this the tone is bad and inconsisent it's too short it's not smart enough it's not spiritual enough anyways that's my brain if you want to be a beta reader for my new (40 page) book on How to Get Unstuck, request access here https://app.betareader.io/books/6729116e25a0346bde1f232e/overview

what brings you here friend?

recent tweet that seemed to resonate: most people who say they have attention deficit disorder actually have sacredness deficit disorder. they lack things in their lives that truly matter, that seem bigger than just them - and somehow get surprised when the other things don't hold their attention.

hey friends, i promised @Brandon L i would post this up after the coaching yesterday this can be very helpful if you're feeling kinda bad, but have trouble introspecting on why. sometimes, just saying these core feelings out loud (as in "I'm feeling worthless", or "I'm worthless" can help you locate something that resonates, then you can sit with and express that feeling. hope this is useful! warmth, trinley

I'm sharing an 𝕏 Thread here for value sharing🌟 ## “Revealed Preferences” might be the single most transformative concept I ever learned. No other idea has ever changed my life so drastically. --- I learned the term when I was 24. I was living in a place I didn't like, with people I wasn't fond of, working a job I didn't love, or at least thought of as being beneath my potential. so this idea hit me like a ton of bricks. --- The idea that I might actually like it, or that this way of living served some psychological drive or met some need, was extremely jarring. I would go blue in the face telling people how much I didn't like this. Could this concept explain why I was staying there? --- Turns out, it did. Mortified by my motivations being explained so simply, and embarrassed at how I'd been deluding myself, I tried to take the next step—asking myself what I really wanted. --- Did I want to live there forever? Did I want to keep company with these people for the rest of my life? Is this the work I felt I was supposed to do every day? No. But I was acting like the answer was yes. --- I had to reckon with the idea that I needed to change. If this way of living suited who I was right now, fine. But I didn't want to be this person forever. So I had to consciously change those things. --- At the time, I was still reeling a little, so I equivocated. I said, well, I'll change what I do and where I do it—I'll move and start a new career path. But I'll bring some of these people along with me. That should've told me something, but the psyche resists change. --- It would all be for naught anyway, as the pandemic lockdowns happened just as I was planning to move. The best-laid plans of mice and men, you know. So, in a certain sense, I was doing everything right as I tried to wrestle with who I was and who I wanted to be. --- I probably would’ve ended up ditching those people at some future point, but fate gave me a shove. After the lockdowns, my plans were in tatters, so I made new ones while equivocating even more.