My 5 Biggest Lessons From $5,000+ Of Business Networking
I’ve spent over $5,000 to network with business owners.⁣
I almost went broke investing everything I had into my business…⁣
Here are 5 little-known secrets I’ve discovered:⁣
But the more you pay for a lesson…⁣
The more that lesson STICKS. ⁣
I’ve been met Hamza Ahmed at an exclusive mastermind…⁣
I’ve joined the greatest coaching network for young entrepreneurs- G Team Academy.
I've explored 100s of communities and courses in search of the truth...
Here are the 5 little-known lessons I took from networking with the best:⁣
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Lesson #1: We Are All Self-Made⁣
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I had a chance to go up on stage in front of 25 people…⁣
Unfortunately I’m prone to social anxiety (at the best of times).⁣
But you know what?⁣
I didn’t give a fuck.⁣
I went up anyway because I had something to say.⁣
After introducing myself confidently I explained what I do to everyone.⁣
From the event I added 10 new coaches to my network…⁣
The lesson?⁣
Act as the man you wish to be and you will become him.
Never wait until you don’t feel anxious or nervous (it won’t go away unless you make it)!⁣
Act as if you didn’t feel that way- and the feeling goes away.⁣
Manifestations, visualisations and affirmations are all bullsh*t…
Compared to just acting the way you wish you felt like acting.⁣
This requires some discipline and imagination…⁣
But I promise that the next time you decide to do something,⁣
If you just ask:⁣
“If I do this, will I be prouder of myself?”
You can’t go wrong.⁣
Only do the things your future self can be proud of.⁣
Remember that you are self-made (but only the successful will admit it).⁣
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Lesson #2: If You Don’t Articulate Your Value, Nobody Gives A Fuck⁣
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Ever tried selling something without explaining it?⁣
Yeah me neither.⁣
That would be f*cking stupid.⁣
So why do you refuse to introduce yourself at networking events? ⁣
Why don’t you connect with other entrepreneurs and explain what you do (clearly)? ⁣
If you want connections and sales- you have to ask for them.⁣
You don’t have enough self-esteem.⁣
Neither do I.⁣
The best way to increase it?⁣
Do the work.⁣
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“Every time we choose action over ease we develop an increasing level of self-worth, self-respect, and self-confidence.”
— John C Maxwell⁣
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The more you accomplish Lesson #1, the more you will naturally FEEL valuable.⁣
Self-esteem breeds confidence.⁣
And the best way to build more self-esteem is to get competence.⁣
So practice your skills every day.⁣
Choose one based on your Ikigai:⁣
➤ A skill you love practising⁣
➤ A skill you’re already talented at⁣
➤ A skill that the world needs (e.g. coaching)⁣
➤ A skill that you can get paid a lot for⁣
Start working on yourself…⁣
Until your work begins to speak for itself.⁣
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Lesson #3: You Can’t Reach A Goal You Don’t Have Or Achieve A Dream You Can’t See⁣
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I had no clue where I was.⁣
All I knew was I wanted to be rich and free (don’t we all?).⁣
Last December I began to invest in this $10,000 course…⁣
I didn’t even own a business yet.⁣
If I knew then what I know now I would’ve done it differently.⁣
Investing in yourself is foolish,⁣
Unless you know “why”.⁣
Don’t make my mistake.⁣
Figure out what you want your life to look like…⁣
Then reverse-engineer this into a yearly goal and quarterly milestones.⁣
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First say to yourself what you would be; and then do what you have to do."
— Epictetus
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In the immortal words of Epictetus- you decide who you want to be.⁣
But the only way you can become that person is by DOING.⁣
Action > Dreams…⁣
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Lesson #4: Connections Aren’t Found They’re Created⁣
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I’ve made so many amazing friends on this journey.⁣
Before starting I was so lonely and lacking motivation…⁣
But strangely some of the greatest friends I’ve made have been online because it’s easy to find like-minded souls when you have access to the internet. Nobody in your real life is going to really understand you. Not like I can- or another entrepreneur.⁣
We are rare creatures for now.⁣
But one day entrepreneurs will be the norm.⁣
In the meantime, make as many connections as you can.⁣
Just know that in order to do that…⁣
You HAVE to put yourself out there.⁣
Fear of rejection is the main reason most people fail to do this.⁣
They think:
➤ If I get rejected I’ve lost something (you haven’t- you’ve gained courage)
➤ If I fail then I’ll be judged (only by yourself)
➤ People will come to me when the time is right (most won’t do this)
The answer is always MORE.⁣
Send more DMs, comment more- connect more deeply.⁣
This is why I’m always open to making a new friend or business partner…⁣
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Lesson #5: Nobody Cares About Your Product⁣
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My business flopped harder than a sumo wrestling seal.⁣
And now I’ve discovered why:⁣
There’s a reason why nobody cares about random cheap products made in China.⁣
Or why you can’t make a lot of money selling the exact same product someone else is selling (even if they’re REALLY successful).⁣
The reason people buy from famous entrepreneurs like Alex Hormozi is NOT because of his product.⁣
Or even his “grand slam offer”.⁣
Yes he provides a shit ton of value (which logically gives the client a ROI)…⁣
But he has more than a product…⁣
He has a STORY.⁣
People don’t care about products.⁣
People care about people.⁣
Your customers care about:
➤ Your story more than your results⁣
➤ Your personality more than your product⁣
➤ Your image and brand more than your actual skills⁣
They can almost certainly find a similar product elsewhere- but what they can’t find is someone with your product AND your story.⁣
Branding is more important than selling.⁣
It’s not about what you’re selling as much as it is WHO is selling it.
That’s why without credibility or social proof, you CANNOT make a lot of money online. ⁣
This is why testimonials and case studies are so important. Alex Hormozi has a reputation you can’t match- his product is something you could arguably recreate if you had access to the same information and people. But not his story or the goodwill his brand has generated.⁣
If nobody knew who you were, you could have the greatest damn product in the world…⁣
But your product would never sell.⁣
Lesson?
NETWORK and help people KNOW YOUR NAME.⁣
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TL;DR:
1. Act as the man (or woman) you wish to be⁣
2. Articulation is required to be able to sell⁣
3. Set effective goals before you invest in yourself⁣
4. Create connections daily or you’ll never make it⁣
5. Your product isn’t as important as your story and brand⁣
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If you’re still reading this, I can tell you’re going to change the world.⁣
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“Never doubt that a small group of thoughtful, committed citizens can change the world. Indeed, it is the only thing that ever has.”
— Margaret Mead
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And if you want a new connection who’ll support you no matter what,⁣
Just comment below what your biggest dream is (maybe we share vision).
Much Love,⁣
Zac
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