Second Divorce on the Horizon. Mediation completed

Met with Paul about 3 years ago before I got remarried. The more I think about it, this person was damaged and never should have pursued. Here is the list that I didn’t pay attention to when we met. Can damaged women ever overcome???

My ex would fall into that category and maybe overlooked it all.

1. Father in prison for racketeering when she was 12-15 years old.

2. Pregnant at 19. Baby Daddy had no part of her kids life. She was shot at 23 and two people died in a mass shooting at her parents bar in 2001.

3. Married man 10 years older at 27 and was divorced 8 months later due to alleged inappropriate relations between his 15 year old son and exes 9 year old daughter.

4. Was in an off and on relationship with a guy for 10 years and nothing transpired.

5. Met her at 42. Family didn’t approve and daughter didn’t approve.

6. Two miscarriages with me.

7.Her main bartender that she knew for 30 plus years blows his brains out in April and she didn’t recover.

I have take. Paul’s advice and have had no contact aside from logistics. I should be signing my mediation papers this week and will be divorced. We had a prenup.

I am 46 and have a 7 year old. Really don’t know where to go from here dating moving forward. Will join the paid the community as soon as I can.

Thanks for reading.

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