Hi, I'm new here but I just want to be better. My wife manages all the schedules for her me our son and her mom who lives with us. I just started working 3rd shift as a diesel tech and things have gotten harder to manage in some ways and easier in others. But my wife is constantly checking in on me and her mom making sure our son got to school and got picked up or taken to his activitys, all as she manages a retail store. It's weighing hard on her and the household chores are not being done in a timely manner I went through and cleaned the house tip to tail and plan on keeping up with it now that we have had a chat about that part of the mental load but I know there's more I can do. I just don't know where to start