The Power of Simplicity: Overcoming Your Ego
Alright, let's have a little heart to heart. We've all heard the phrase "kill your ego," but let's be real, that's easier said than done. Our egos are our constant companions, whispering in our ear that we're the best, that we can do no wrong, and that we don't need anyone else's help to succeed. But if there's one thing I've learned in my years of sales, it's that the EGO LIKES SIMPLE. It doesn't want us to take risks, to try something new, or to admit that we need help. It wants us to stick to the tried and true, to play it safe, and to be content with mediocrity. Let's explore how simplicity can help us overcome our egos and reach new heights in our sales careers. First, let's talk about why the ego likes simple. Our minds are wired to conserve energy, and our egos are no exception. When presented with a complex problem, our brains have to work harder to come up with a solution. That's why our egos prefer to stick to familiar patterns, habits, and routines. They're easy, comfortable, and require minimal effort. But what's easy isn't always what's best for us. In sales, we need to be constantly adapting, learning, and improving. We need to be willing to try new things, take risks, and push ourselves out of our comfort zones. And that's where simplicity comes in. Simplicity doesn't mean dumbing things down or taking shortcuts. It means focusing on what's essential and cutting out the noise. It means being honest with ourselves about what's working and what's not and being willing to make changes accordingly. It means being willing to ask for help, to admit when we don't know something, and to be open to feedback. Simplicity is about being efficient, effective, and adaptable. When we simplify our approach to sales, we free up mental energy to focus on what matters most: building relationships, solving problems, and adding value. Ok, sounds reasonable...but how do I overcome my ego by embracing simplicity? One way is to identify our limiting beliefs. What stories are we telling ourselves about why we can't succeed? What excuses are we making for not taking action? Once we're aware of these limiting beliefs, we can challenge them and replace them with more empowering beliefs.