I was referred here by Katie and Jake Muller! :) My husband has helped my mental load by taking care of the whole spirit week this week for our child. His school planned a spirit week AND a secret friend, so he has had to draw, make cards, buy gifts for a “secret friend”, and this whole week I have not had to lift a finger - he’s done it ALL! I haven’t gotten home from my day until about 8pm each night, so he knew this was one less thing I wouldn’t have to think about with having a crazy, hectic week!